i'm new to here so i hope ive posted this in the most apropriate place!
im just looking for oppinions really me and my bf have talked about having a baby hopefully when i finish uni im 18 and finish in 4 yrs so ill be 22 he is older than me and already has two kids from a previous marriage. My friends say i'm too young to be thinking of children but they dont like him mainly because of the age difference so i think that may have something to do with what they say.
I am also in a wheelchair. we have been to see my doctor together about how that will affect things and the only thing they said was that i may need a caesarean section to avoid complications in labour and that i will have to have scans a checkups more frequently than usual.
Some people tell me i'm selfish wanting to bring kids up with a disabled mum as they wouldnt have all the opportunities of kids with "normal" parents. i dont agree but maybe i'm wearing rose-tinted glasses? what do u think? i know it ultimately my (well mine and my bfs) descision but im just interested in your views.
please be honest and dont worry about offending me thats almost impossible! i asked for your views to hear both sides of the story so i'll take them all

ps sorry for the rubbish typing