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13/01/2014 at 10:35
This is my first post/rant on this forum, I only signed up yesterday to hopefully talk to some ladies going through similar issues... I'm 28 (hubby's 36) and we've been trying to conceive for over 5 years (Been together 8 years, married for 2) We caught at christmas 2011 after my first 3 months of clomid and got to 13 weeks before finding out that that our baby was very poorly (turners syndrome and hydrops) and ended up going through the hideous ordeal of a Medical Termination. We've been trying to get pregnant again since and have had another 3 cycles of clomid. My husbands sperm is working fine, I have PCOS and struggle ovulatIng. I don't seem to be getting the care from my gynaecologist that I should. They gave me the meds and sent me on my way, no scans to check on ovulation, just a few blood tests (which the blood room at the hospital managed to screw up) after convincing myself that this month might be the month for us I did a pregnancy test this morning (as I do every month) and it was negative (surprise, surprise!)
I feel like I am at the end of my tether! I could scream! I just wish they could take it all out, fix it and put it back! The disappointment month after month unbearable and I'm at a loss of what to do next, I've lost weight, changed diet, taken difference vitamins, changed positions, done head stands afterwards, had sex everyday, every other, every 2! ... Can anyone give me any more suggestions?
Sorry to rant so much!
13/01/2014 at 11:15
hi im in a similar position with my pcos and was hospitalised a few months back due to the pcos and the pain I was in because I was not ovulating, I turned to doc Ann walker who is a herbalist and had a scan a few weeks later after being on her recommendations and have had regular ovulations since September when I started the plan. and I totally understand the not being able to take another neg test, im currently 10 days late by my last few periods (with pcos you never can tell) and its killing me everytime I see it.
always here if you need a pcos rant god knows I always do.
14/01/2014 at 17:41
17/01/2014 at 10:02
I am all very new to this but thought I would join in if you don't mind? Me and my partner have been trying to concieve baby number two for over two years now with no success. I already have a beautiful daughter who is now four but fell pregnant very quickly with her and without really trying. This time round however its just not happenning and every time my period comes or I take a test with a negative result I just want to scream or cry......or both!!!!!! I think it has come to a point now that I am putting so much pressure on myself I feel stressed every month! I can't stand the waiting game! I really hope 2014 is all of our year! Good luck ladies x
17/01/2014 at 11:32
19/01/2014 at 19:34
thank you for your responses! It's comforting to hear that my feelings are not uncommo! Let's hope we get some good news soon! hopefully I'll be getting another appointment through soon so I can find out what my next step is!
Love and best wishes! Xxxxx
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