hi I've been talking to my partner about having kids! We're both up for it but he wants me to stay on the pill for a little longer. I'm not pushing him into doing anything he doesn't want to do but we've been talking about it over a year now and nothing's happened! i don't know if its me or he's scared? I'm sure he would have told me if he didn't want kids yet? i don't know what to say to him?