Thanks....that was a helpful reply...I can't believe how naive i was thinking that the first month I did awy with birth control and Bd at the right time then it would happen just like that!! I think that after not getting a BFP in my first or second cycle (and also being surprised at how hard i took it) that I will appreciate it more when I do get a BFP.
I also know that there are a lot of ladies who have been trying for longer, and i still don't understand how people get pregnant accidentally or while on the pill.
I'm glad that i'm not in a rush age-wise and that I started trying when I did, am so relieved we didn't wait for a year or two after marriage to start trying as we had originally planned.(It seems to be normal in our family and friends to wait for a few years before starting a family). Now it is possible anyway that we will reach our 1 year anniversary without me being pregnant (if it takes on average 6 months).
I just wish that patience was one of my strong points, but unfortunately its not!! Ah well, will go for a run now to chill out. Healthy and fit is the way to go for TTC after all

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I'm sure you will be a great mum as you want this so much x