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11/06/2015 at 22:20
Im absolutley devestated. Today i found out I had deffinitey miscarried my baby after 2 weeks of testing and scanning.
Could anybody who has been in this situation give me some advice on what to do afterwards? I dont feel as though i can get over it, i feel like an empty vesil.
I'm 22 with a good job with an amazing family but I cant help but feel like I've had enough and Ive got no fight left in me.
Im going into hospital on Saturday for a pill which will make my body get rid of whats left inside which im terrified about....whats this like??
I just need some positive advice to be honest
12/06/2015 at 08:39
Hey hun sorry for your loss i lost my first at Christmas the pills are nothing to worry about they just put them inside you and keep checking them till they have dissolved then your aload to go home where you should. Start to bleed but i personally didnt have them i chose naturally but i was 8 weeks and it took 2 weeks to push everything out and then one month after i got my period and been ttc again since then but when it happens there is nothing anyone can say hun or do you just need time and its best to say goodbye in your own way me i really just cryed and stopped eating but one night when i was crying i just spoke to my baby like asif i was holding her spirit and sed im sorry and i talked for about an hour its not wierd at all how ever you feel best to say. Goodbye hun and then i started to feel abit more closure everyone grieves in different ways some ttc straight away some like to wait awhile its completely your choice dont let anyone tell you differant if you want to cry for two weeks you do so its you going through it hun youl here alot of it happens for a reason and that its common but egnor it hun because doctors see it everyday there not sensitive at all about it but i fort i never wanted to try agen but then we have carried on trying and end of day it will make us better mother's for this experience because when we fall pregnant again will no how much we want it and we will keep that with us forever it will get better hun just allow yourself time sending love hun dont no if it helps but i hope you no your not alone xx
Sorry to hear of your loss. I had a missed miscarriage 2 weeks ago and had a D&C.
The one thing that is getting me through it is all the stories I read about people having a miscarriage and go onto to having healthy babies.
I can not comment about the Pill you will be taking as I didn't have that.
Big hugs to you xxx
12/06/2015 at 17:20
I've never had a miscarriage but I couldn't read your story and run. My very closest friend has never wanted anything more that she wanted a child, at 8 weeks pregnant she lost her 1st child followed by 2 more miscarriages due to stress from the 1st one. Currently she is 28 weeks pregnant with a healthy baby girl. Don't give up and don't stress out. I know right now it's hard to think about and I know you're upset and let it all out, the girls on this site are amazing to talk to as well. Just know, it was in no way your fault, it has happened to lots of people close to me. You do need closure, it'll take time. But when you're ready to have another child, don't devastate yourself, stay positive and I'm sure you'll have a healthy, beautiful child.
check out those websites, hopefully they'll help. Especially the second one. I am terribly sorry for your loss but have nothing but faith that things will eventually get easier for you.
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