can the day i ov change from month to month? i dont mean by alot but i was sure i ov'd on cd 11 the last 2 months cycle day 14 the month before them to and i think im near ov now and its cd 13. i am so confused! pls help me
dont worry im still full of pma and im going to stay that way until af arrives this month (or i get my bfp!)

Hey hun, yeah the days you OV can change. Great to hear you still have your PMA!! Hope you get your BFP soon hun!! xxxxxxxxxx

Yes I think it can change hun. Good Luck!!

Hi hun.
Glad your full of pma.
Im not much help on ov, as I dont even know if ive ov.lol. sorry.
but didnt want to r+r.
Keeping my fingers crossed you get a bfp soon
xx

I have the same problem i seem to be all over the place although i don't actually use opk i just check for cm and my boobs get sore the day after ov so i know when i did. first month it was cd13 i think then month 2 was either 14 or 15 and then this month it was cd 17! i suppose i can be greatful that my cycles have gone back to 'normal' pretty quickly though and have not had to wait ages for first af. sorry i wasn't much help! x

thank you it has been a help. i dont use opk's either i just check cm (sorry for tmi)
is there anyone that does use opk's that knows?
its just strange coz i have regular af's but ov seems to be all over the place. i thought that your lp stayed the same if you have regular cycles?!

I get confused too because my cycles seem to always be 26 days or around that. I suppose the only way to know is to use opk but i'm starting on temp charting next month so hopefully that will help x

yeah mine are 27 days on the dot. i cant chart temps because i have to get up for a wee just before i get up in the morning or my LO will call 10mins before the alarm goes off, so it wouldnt be acrute enough. i supose we could just bd every other day all cycle but think that may feel like a chore!

Supposedly, the luteal phase (the time from ov to your next AF) is pretty constant, but the time from CD1 to ov day can vary. I can't say I have any experience of it, since I'm still waiting to ov in month 1 after pill, but that's what I've read!

Mine varies between cd12 and 14 and has done for 16 months. Bit of a nuisance for arranging my donor!!!xx

my temps probably won't be that accurate either as sometimes have to get up for kids as they are too scared to go to the toilet on there own in the night they just yell! but from checking them last year, i still saw a pattern as the themometer was quite sensitive.

I can see it must be frustrating for you hjanea as i suppose you only get one shot a month unless your donar makes it over twice each month. at least the rest of us get to do it when we think we need to (so long as oh is willing of course!) and even then you need to get it right although i suppose if you do it on day 12 then they'll be there for days 12,13 and hopefully 14! x