This probably sounds really odd but I keep finding myself seeing all my friends and family falling pg around me and im immensly jealous and tearful about it. I am really happy for most but two girls my sister being one and a work colleague being another both announced their news and then promptly said it was a mistake and they feel like their lives are ruined. I cant even bring myself to speak to either of them. I feel like shouting 'ERRRRMMM HELLO Im desperate for a baby and am heartbroken from my miscrriage why are you saing this in front of me?'

Is it just me or do the rest of you ever feel jealous of others around you who have what we want so badly and they dont seem to be bothered?

Omg YES!!!
Its really hard especially after we've been through a loss to hear that,particualy as they feel like their lives are ruined,although i'm sure they'll be fine in time.
I do understand though i just want it to be MY turn and it all work out well,that sounds so selfish but i dont think we can help how we feel on this especially after what we've been through.
xx

Its crazy I know I shouldn't be jealous but I just find myself boiling inside when im near either of the girls. Its so bad hubby and I have booked to go away at christmas and not be with my family because niether of us can stand to be anywhere near my sister after she went on and on about this being a catastrophic mistake.

Its been 4 months 4 me now but I still cant let it go. My Best friend who fell pregnant at the same time as me in march is due in 3 weeks and I love her too bits but I can tell she is worried about talking about baby stuff around me because I withdraw. I dont mean too but its that or blub and the last thing I want to do is upset her. MAN!!

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i feel same. when i was discharged from hospital for mc my sisters baby was discharged, i was very jealous. and my best friend soon announced she was preg. she thought it was a mistake. but now the baby is a month old she loves her to bits. i was extremely jealous when she have birth as my baby would of been 2 months old. i get really badly jealous when i see a mother and baby.

Yes, yes, yes, all the time!

I Tried to do everything right, i.e went ot uni, worked my arse off so i could support myself, finally after many years (and frogs) met a lovely lovely man, saved up, got married, saved again, brought a house now feel let down when my mates/ collegues meet a random guy, and "accidently" fall pregnant, "opp's cant think what happened"!!!

Others just rely on their parents, (like one who's parents bought her a flat when she got pregnant with new boyf!)

Another younger work collegue, got pregnant with her on again off again boyf, continued to get pissed and smoke her way through her pregnancy, whilst exclaiming loudly she hated being pregnant and she was "sooo fat" (size 10!!!) and that the baby was annoying cos her kicking kept her awake at night... :evil: I could only dream :cry:

I know this is only a small selection, but i cant help but wonder why me?

OMG - I am so jealous to the point I am avoiding a best friend bcos she is 15 weeks. I feel bad but then again I dont want to put myself through that heart ached of the whole 'feeling happy for her eventhough I am not' (well i am happy for her but i just cant express it yet!)