Hi ladies,

sorry have also posted this in ttc after m/c section.

Hi everyone,

I'd wrote here on Sat that I thought I might have had an early m/c the week of 12th but wasn't sure as the doc had no appoinmtents. Went today and he said that he's pretty much certain that was what it was with my actual AF being due on the 7th and all the other symptoms.

Don't quite know how I feel at the moment feel a bit silly saying that I've m/c when it was so early on and I never took a +ve pregnancy test and I think I was expecting him to say that I'd never know either way but it really floored me when he said it was. Not seen my o/h yet luckily I had the rest of the day off work as I'm really shocked by how upset I feel can't stop crying but also feel really foolish when other people have a m/c much later. The difficult thing is that I've not told anyone we're trying so don't even want to tell my family as I think it'll look like i'm over reacting being upset over something that never really begun. Also feel a bit stupid feeling upset when it happened over a week ago but I never really knew until today.

Has anyone else had a m/c confirmed this early?

Pam
x

I'm so sorry. It is hard to come to terms with whether to you had taken the test or not.
I had a similar experience about 2 years ago. I was on the pill and had a relly heavy, painful period later than usual and beacuse of all the blood (sorry tmi) went to see my GP. He said it was most likely an early mc..never even realised I could have been pregnant but left me feeling quite sad.
Apparently most women just think they have heavy period when in fact they might be having an early mc.
I hope you are going to be ok...just take it easy. We are here if you need someone to talk to.
xxx Flora

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and maby another ((((((((hug)))))))))))

I got a pos preg test in july and started bleedng really bad so went to doc who did a test and said congrats ur preg :cry: was told if i kept bleeding to test in a week if it was pos go bk to the doc and if it was neg then start ttc again :cry:

Also at the and of aug i got a pos test followed by 6 more then started getting neg's then AF came and i am back to ttc again.......
Its so hard all i can say is CRY lots coz it really helps and if you dont cry it bottles up and you might burst.
It gets better and i am sure you will get your sticky bfp very soon
(((((((((HUGS)))))))) gems xx

Thanks Flora,

It's good to know you can chat to folk on here as everyone's in the same boat or should I say emotional rollercoster of ttc (poor joke I know but best I can think of at moment!) Doc's referred me to hospital for a scan to check everything's ok as still in a bit of pain but if that's all clear then I can hopefully start trying again next month. Good luck to everyone else who's waiting for BFP in October

Thanks Gems

your hugs made me smile

hun, just wanted to sens big hugs and im thinking of you.xx