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29/09/2015 at 16:40
Me and my partner are TTC we have only been trying two weeks and I'm already becoming obsessed with getting pg. Its all I think about all the time, does anyone else feel this way? How can I stop stressing about it?
I have started taking seven seas trying to conceive and Im using ovulation tests as I'm unsure of dates. All shown negative so far.
My partner is only home on weekends and I'm finding this hard as we may miss the day :(
Any positiveness would be grateful :)
30/09/2015 at 15:03
Hi, I know exactly how you feel. I had a mc in Feb and last Month a chemical mc. It's all I can think about too. I use an ovulation kit too and I'm taking conception vitamins. eVen if you do ovulate when he is away, you can do the deed up to five days before, and because the egg lives for 12 to 24 you could do it after you have ovulated within that window and still conceive, I think.
30/09/2015 at 15:19
Thank you for your reply.
I'm sorry to hear about mc hope you are ok?
Thank you for your advice. We will spend as much time doing bd on weekends and just hope it falls on the correct day. According to my calander I ovulate on Friday (finally a weekend) but unsure how correct this is. I'm hoping my ovulation test will show positive on that day.
30/09/2015 at 15:47
Hi chloekent and lexie :)
I understand how you both feel! this is my 3rd month ttc after I lost my baby at 16 weeks in June! I was testing so early last month and I did get a BFP, a few days later AF arrived so I'm amusing it was a chemical pregnancy :( I was in sever pain and my period was heavy with clots! AF has stopped today so I am going to use ovulation kits this month to get the date spot on! I have to been completely obsessing over it, my partner thinks I'm mad and I need to relax, so I think this month I'm going to try not to think about it and relax and just wait and see :)
30/09/2015 at 18:21
Sorry to hear about your mc must be extremely emotional.
Its literally all I think about I can't stop I'm worried stressing about it won't help so yes like you I think we need to just try relax and just see what happens (easier said than done mind)
I've ordered some preseed im hoping it arrives before the weekend... Fingers crossed.
At least I now know I'm not the only one feeling like I'm going crazy :)
01/10/2015 at 11:19
Hi Chloekent and Amy. I'm fine now thanks, I lost my first at nine weeks but I dint know until I went for the 16 week scan. I was devastated but I'm ok now. Hi Amy I'm sorry to hear about your mc too. I used the clear blue ovulation kit so it gives me four possible days. I've promised my husband I'm not going to do a pregnancy test early this month, I'm going to wait, so I have been symptom spotting instead. You are meant to be more fertile after a mc and I'm on x10 dpo, let's hope Af doesn't show. I think my husband thinks I'm obsessed but I do think a rainbow baby will make the losses a little easier.
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