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07/01/2015 at 20:59
So this will be a long one. Sorry in advance
I have b/g twins who are going to be two soon. We decided to ttc at the end of 2014 and managed quite quickly. We were super excited but unfortunately it ended in long week of not knowing if I was having a miscarraige or what was going on. Turned out the pregnancy was ectopic and I was rushed to get an ovary and fallopian tube removed. Ive been gutted since. I was prepared that I wasn't going to have this baby as the hospital told me straight away that the outlook didnt look good and to prepare for it.
So here comes the issue. I really want to try again once i have my next period but my partner (who found all this really scary) really doesnt want to try again. He said we should be happy with what we have but i was desperate to have another child and I wanted them really close together. I'm super grateful to have the twins but I just do not feel finished. Im sooo upset he doesnt want anymore (he really did before the ectopic) and i just don't know what to do to get over it as I know there is going to be no changing his mind.
any advice is more than welcome!xx
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