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17/05/2013 at 13:56
Af arrived today exactly 4 weeks since mmc; part of me feels lucky that the mc is all over and my cycle is back on track but I can't help feeling really unlucky that I wasn't one of the ones who got pg straight away! I know I'm being very impatient but the thoughts of having to start the whole ttc horrible journey is making me feel down.
I'm 41 next week and although I feel blessed to have my 9 year old ds I just want a baby with my hubby!! Is it too much to ask?
sorry ladies, just needed a rant and you're the only ones who know how hard this all is!xx
17/05/2013 at 14:00
hello hun i had a miscarriage in august last year and tryed to get pregnant and it dident happen so was so upset as people sometimes dident even get a period and be pregnant it took me 6 month and now im 14 weeks pregnant and going strong iknow its hard i have been through it dont get easier just better to cope with best thing to do is forget about it like not worry tmi but my partner works away alot and we was trying constant while he wasent away and when he was away for a while we tried once and i got pregnant i have heard if you try less and dont worry it will happen good luck im here for you to talk to xx
17/05/2013 at 15:27
Hi carioke ,
so sorry 2 hear your news , I felt the same when af arrived - alawys hear of others being lucky & not having af in between, haven't got 2nd af yet but feel like it's on the way unlesss ov'd weds nt ,prob just cramping , at least you know everything's back on track tho & af wasn't late, & you can give it your best efforts this cycle ,little consolation I know when all you want is a baby, the yearning for another baby is indescribable isn't it ,chin up & try & keep positive hun x x
17/05/2013 at 16:46
Thanks for replying ladies! I just can't decide what attitude to have now?; whether to really go for it this month; buy ov sticks, dtd every other day etc or just don't try at all and not count days or temp etc and just go with the flo? but then when af comes again I'll be kicking myself that we didn't try harder!!!! Arrrrgh it's so hard!!!!
17/05/2013 at 18:08
its okay hun the can do attitude i did but both time i only tried one time and got pregnant and we was trying evrey day then twice we tried once and it worked one was a miscarriage and this one has stuck very healthy i went with the flo i said to my partner that im giving up just for a while like forgetting about it and bam a little pudding decided to pop in iknow hun i was in bits for a long time were here for you xx
17/05/2013 at 18:55
It's hard to know what to do for the best isn't it, like Misl we tried both ways, trying not to think about it every waking second,and just thinkig what will be will be , if it's meant to happen it will ,
I found that hard ,and as much as I try not to I try my hardest to do all we can then at least I can say I tried - my dh says I'm abit of a control freak ( I dont know what he means ) but some things we have no control over
What we need is all the best luck in the world, hope we get it x x
18/05/2013 at 13:13
I just feel like I have no control of my future; it's my cousins wedding next March and If I get a bfp in the next 2 months I probably won't be able to go! (we need to put an £80 deposit on the hotel) See, it's controlling my life already! Lol
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