im letting the side down,ive just not really had much interest in knicker checking for cm using my preseed let alone actually bedding and i have no clue why :roll:

ive not even used my opk's this month and im on cd15 we bd on cd12 but usually we start from around 12 and bd ever few days but im not even interested in using them and dont have the umph in me to want to bd that much this month,in my head ive already counted myself out coz my heart hasnt been in it even tho i want another baby so badly

what the buggery is up with me!!!!!!!!:evil::evil::evil:

hun they do say the month you stop trying is the month you will fall! xxx

well I'm certainly perfecting it this month lol

thanks QB and diane x

i bet you will get your bfp soon hun, its just a matter of time, how old is your lo? xxx

Lennon will be 2 in june!!!!! bloody hell lol

Hi hun,

Sorry you are feeling less enthusiastic about everything this month. I think that sometimes you can have months where you just cant be @rsed.

I personally dont temp, use opks etc. I am planning on just waiting to see what happens, we are on month 5 and i know that if i started to use all that stuff i would stop enjoying the time with my hubby. I hate mechanical sex!

I think it could be good for you not to use the preseed and opks, just enjoy the time with your hubby and see what happens. If you dont get your bfp this month (although i'm sure you will ;\) ) then you can go back to using the opks etc next month. You will probably feel more enthusiastic and determined if you take a wee month off,

Hopefully this makes sense - i feel like i've been babbling again! :lol:

I really sincerely hope that by being more relaxed you get your much deserved bfp this month.

Don't start to stress about not being stressed about ttc! That is a warning young lady :P

Lx

lol ladybird you telling me off

ive only used the opks last month that was our first but i never got a strong line but i did forget to use them for 3 days so i could have,naughty grudie lol

i feel like im not activly trying this month....em what am i on??? month 10 lol and i would have hoped i would have been a little bit more intrested,scotts been the 1 to me saying shall we do some baby making tonight lol

Yes, did i sound scary? :lol:

Remember some people have got their bfp after only having sex once or twice that month. I say just go with the flow - there is nothing worse than having sex if you cant be bothered. You might get a lovely surprise at the end of the month.

xxx

oohhhh yeah craped myself.......... hehe

yeah i no chick im just gettingmy knickers in a twist coz i feel like im not doing my best for another baby and if ive failed after 9 months of bding loads and doing other stuff then i ve got a cat in hells chance of getting my BFP this month

think i need to go shake myself lol or get scott to go all hot shots (the film) on me lol

Its a good thing hun. We got so stressed about it this month we tried BDing when we weren't in the mood just because I was ovulating and neither of us were into it. I am almost glad we didn't get a BFP this month, last month was the worst sex of our lives lol!!

I am not even going to tell OH when I am ovulating next month and try and recapture the magic lol!

try not to get too down about it Grudie. you never the relaxed approach may give you your BFP.x

I think it's a good thing in a roundabout way that you've been less stressed about it this month. Maybe that's what your body needs this month. (If that makes sense at all)

Hopefully you'll get your bfp this month! Fingers crossed hun xx