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13/05/2014 at 17:47
Hey girls just wanted to vent a bit. I had complex mmc which was finally resolved at the end of March, AF arrived in April and due again this weekend. Am desperate to be pregnant again did clearblue earlier today as sore boobs, really tired etc and BFN now feeling really low and kicking myself for not waiting. Am so scared it won't happen again (am no spring chicken and my poor uterus has been through the mill )
13/05/2014 at 19:34
Hi NessieB, im sorry your feeling so low. It sounds like you have been through a difficult time recently. You never know it could just be too early to test especially if your periods aren't due to this weekend. I've just had a miscarriage so im not at that stage yet but I can imagine how it can feel the waiting to get pregnant again, the concern, the excitement and fear. It must be a stressful time. I hope it happens for you soon x
13/05/2014 at 20:39
im sorry to hear about your loss (and you too butterfly). I know how devastating it is & how immense the desire is to be pregnant again.
hopefully my story will give you guys hope (& allow you to relax a bit!). I had a missed miscarriage in feb (found out at 9 weeks that baby had died about 6 weeks & finally miscarried with medication assistance at 10 1/2 weeks but then had to retake the meds the following week as i had not passed everything despite severe pain & too much blood loss which saw me back in the ER!).
my 1st period came bang on 4 weeks after i took the meds then after that i started using OPK's as i was worried about my cycles being messed up & had read that its not uncommon to have annovulatory cycles after a m/c. That next cycle (so march into april) I did not ovulate.
I had my second post m/c period 2nd april & again started using OPK's. I ovulated! & bang on schedule too which I was SO happy & relieved about... Just knowing that was such a good feeling... That my body was back to normal.
well... My 3rd period never came & i'm now 5 weeks + 6 days! .
Ive read lots of articles & research which suggests that women are actually more fertile in the months after a miscarriage so you have a good chance of conceiving again Soon.
i wish you both lots of luck!
13/05/2014 at 22:51
Thank you for sharing your story SW2, its helpful to hear what happened to others. I am sorry you appear to have had such a horrendous time. Congratulations on your pregnancy I wish you all the best for it and that you have a happy and healthy 9 months that fly in. It was certainly the case for my sister in law. They had a late miscarriage however she quickly fell pregnant again and had two others in quick succession so it can happen. I just wonder when I will feel ready and able again. Im still so sore and I don't know if it was the procedure or if im still ill. Ill just have to wait and see. Thank you for your best wishes, take care
13/05/2014 at 23:18
Same to you butterfly... I hope you start to feel better soon.
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