Hello wannabe a mummy, I understand your feelings and I have a suggestion.
If you want a baby its going to be hard trying to get pregnant if your both feeling pressured. When me and my husband was trying for a baby we didnt think about it even though we were excited we just did it every month when we fancied it and 'made each other happy' if u know what i mean? Sometimes I got real down when my period came but he was so patient and it came 5 months later a BFP

Don't push each other into doing it. Just go with the flow and do it as often as you both want. Like mithical said try lingerie he mite like u 2 wear. Don't try anything that might put any of u off.
In short time it will happen.
Good luck to you both and let us know what happens. About if you get pregnant and if you both feel any better? ok. xx