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14/09/2012 at 14:16
Okay..so to start I am VERY CONFUSED..I know all the Doctors and Websites state if you get your period and have a negative preg test your not preg..please help me out.. i been thinking i am but so confused..its a lil long but please read : )
I have started to get signs a week before my period came... felt like i was going to thro up but didnt, cramps hurt a lil more than usual and lasted longer than usual, cried a few times(never cry during PMS) then I took a preg test.. has a small pos faint line but thought maybe it was a false pos or something because the next test said neg... got period 2 days early.. was the normal 4 days..possibly a lil lighter than usual but it was nothing too different besides the long cramps.. then it went away and i was convinced i wasnt prego..
then i realized i have been getting headaches all the time now and having diarrhea every so often the past 2 weeks.. then my lower stomach has been hurting like cramps almost, VERY light though.. and i was thinking maybe im putting the pain there from mentally thinking about it too much but then the signs came that it wasnt ME..I had a small pain in both lower sides(maybe ovary area-by hips) in bed when i moved.. it was a throbbing feeling but went away fast..then at my friends house i got off the couch fast and laughed at her lil daughter and felt a spasm almost pain in lower stomach and thought to myself what is that? went away fast..hurt in the same area a lil during sex.. one night and then didn't the next day..
yesterday i started to notice i felt like i went to the gym almost and my lower abs hurt and my back started to hurt like i been sitting weird or laying in a bed that hurt my back..but it didn't go away even when i went home.. woke up today and i feel the same back soreness..thinking maybe it was my bed but its been a few hours and usually that would go away if i slept weird
i have been a lil more emotional..when i did a few things wrong at work i felt like crying but held it in..my boyfriend annoyed me because he didnt come over for dinner but we never discussed it for sure so he didnt see my text.. i screamed and felt like crying later when he went out and didnt call me bc he thought i over reacted..
Please help..im not sure what to think.. i took another preg test and it said neg today...
15/09/2012 at 08:44
I am no expert so ca't possibly say for sure whats happening but I have had something similar. A couple of cycles back I got 2 faint positives - an actually i looked bac at the piccies the other day and theyweren't that faint at all. But then AF arrived early - and i was all over the place the next month. I do't know for sure what it was BUT I have heard that it is quite common for an egg to become fertilized (hence the faint positive) but then get rejected and essentially miscarry. In the days before early pg tests women would never know cos they would just come on their period and a day or two early and think nothing of it. It might not be that - it's just a guess. But I would say if youve had a period like bleed and are getting neg tests - you probably aren't pregnant.
Good luck for next month. x
15/09/2012 at 16:17
15/09/2012 at 16:44
Don't dwell on it hun - when I researche it last time I was ttc I found that it is really really common and a very normal thing to happen. It's not even class as a miscarriage or anything like that cos for some reason or other the egg just didn't implant. Apparantly - they believe (although aren't certain) that it normally happens if there was something wrong with the egg - so it is not implanting it as it wouldn't survive.
I've learnt my lesson from this and just won't be testing early again lol!! From now on I am waiting until i miss that AF! Good luck hun. xxx
OH and by the way I am not a dr or an expert in this at all - this is just what I experienced and the research that I found. Dont take anything I've said as gospel! xxx
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