Hope everyone had a good new year!!!Af arrived 3 days late in the end,very disappointing. I have had the flu for the last 4 days so not sure my chances are that great this month,fever cant do your cycle much good.My OH went all weird on me at the weekend and says hes changed his mind about having a baby,was really upset after i got so excited!He hasnt used a condom since the discussion though so not sure whether to mention it or not to say anything!I want a baby and if he wants to wait then why isnt he being careful lol

maybe he was just stressed about something?? maybe money or something like that and he just said it not thinking. he probably does want one. men r weird i wouldn't worry haha xxx

He says he wants a baby and he is ready but we had an arguement on saturday and he said he wants to wait a year til our relationship is more stable.when i told my friend what was going on she said talk to him,but im not going to because as you say is sounds like hes getting nervous and hes old enough to know what happens when you dont use a condom!Im not trying to trap him but he hasnt asked me to go back on the pill and isnt using anything either so he cant really mean wat he is saying.He even bought me a baby book for xmas and labelled it our secret present

i think he was probably just dissapointed about af!!! like the other girls say, try keep the specifics of ov and bd to yourself to keep things "normal". and he would want to have a proper chat about using contraception again.

me and my oh ended up having a similar chat on xmas day night (if that makes sence) as he was having sudden doubts. i think it's because he expected us to bd once and voila!!! so we had an hour long convo about which contraception to back to and it ended up in a complete u-turn and turned out that he was just really stressed about work stuff- totally unrelated and that he really does want a lo. just having that chat has made us closer and i feel like we really are a team now Good luck!! xx