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Trying to conceive
06/06/2013 at 22:21
me and my partner lost a baby febuary 20th and we been trying ever since to get pregnant again.!
We are trying so hard to be a mum and dad again!
Just don't know what to do! Is there anything I can try or anything as its been almost 5 months and no sign
18/06/2013 at 10:14
I'm so sorry for you Baby1612. It's the most heartbreaking loss. I had a miscarriage on the 4th of Feb and it just broke my heart. I went back to work quite quickly and was treated terribly which really didn't help my anxiety and stress levels and it took me a few months to concieve again. I can honestly say that taking a break (we went on holiday) and having some time off with no stress really did help us. The first two months I was OBSESSED with getting pregnant again. It consumed me. I thought it was the only way to end my heartbreak. In hindsight I was not ready to get pregnant again when I did because I hadn't grieved my loss. I have been very emotional and felt enormous guilt with my second pregnancy because of this. I think giving yourself time to come to terms with what's happened to you (a major trauma and loss) is the first and most important concern. Then taking some time to de-stress and chill out will inevitably help you. Well, I hope so because I'm sure that's what helped me.
I wish you all the luck in the world.. I know how difficult it can be and how deeply it hurts at the end of the month when you realise it's not to be yet but you have got pregnant once before.. have faith that it will happen again when it's meant to.
Love Holly x
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