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08/12/2013 at 21:49
Hiya. This is second month ttc#1. AF is one day late. I'm 12dpo and on cd29. At 10dpo I had terrible shooting pains/cramps that lasted a couple of mins and literally took my breath away, they were so painful! Anyway, I've got no signs of AF coming. I had some pink (not brown) tinged cm earlier, lots of it, I had to rush to the loo as I though AF had showed her face (sorry tmi). I'm bloated, gassy and feel strange in myself. My bowels are all over the place (again, sorry tmi). I've done a few HPT's including IC's and FRER and all BFN. I took a super drug digital earlier and BFN... However... It was one tht comes with 2 sticks and when I ejected the one to throw it away it had two clear lines... Why 2 lines if its negative?? My cervix is extremely high, barely reachable and firm. Any ideas or experiences would be appreciated xxx
09/12/2013 at 05:52
Hi chick I used 2 of those superdrug tests too before af was due, first one had one blue line and another very very faint smudge of a line that's when I thought eh up maybe I am. Took another a few days later still said not pregnant but the stick had one blue line and a 2nd considerably darker blue line and that's when I knew something must be going on. Got my bfp that cycle good luck try again in a few days with a first response or something x
09/12/2013 at 05:54
09/12/2013 at 05:55
09/12/2013 at 10:18
Hi. Thanks for your reply I'm now on cd30 (normally 28day cycle) and still no signs of AF. By now, I usually have terrible cramps and back pain. I've had no more pink discharge and IC test said BFN this morning. Are IC's that reliable??
Your pics are similar to mine! Fingers crossed this is my month.
congrats on your pregnancy, hope you a H&H 9 months xxx
09/12/2013 at 11:18
This post contains tmi so I'm warning you in advance lol... I've tried to check my cervix and its completely unreachable... It also feels 'weird' up there... I can feel what I think are my vaginal walls, they're very soft and squishy... I've never felt them before, its always felt 'empty' up there but now it's as if I'm having to push past them to get my finger in... I'm so sorry for tmi, I did warn you all lol Has anyone experienced this either before AF, before a BFP or for another reason??
09/12/2013 at 12:14
Don't use ics they are crap I was getting negatives on those when I knew I was already preggers. Try a first response chick sounds promising x
09/12/2013 at 16:07
I've got a definate negative on a FRER and also on a super drug one. This is driving me insane! Xx
09/12/2013 at 16:11
10/12/2013 at 16:16
Negative this morning with first wee, negative just aswell with FRER clearnlue blue. My cervix is medium, soft and closed. I just want my BFP or for AF to show so I can start again xxx
11/12/2013 at 12:13
Still BFN! Just checked my cervix and it seems a lot higher and 'deeper' into vaginal walls (if that makes sense? However, had some brown tinged cm afterwards when I wiped (sorry for tmi) it was quite watery with a stringy bit that was like ewcm... I'm still quite 'wet' in there and I thought it would dry p if AF was on her way?
i don't feel pre-menstrual at all! No tension headaches, backaches or cramps... I usually have to take codeine a couple of days before I come on due to the pain! I've got a light 'ache' and few twinges but nothing too drastic, it's not making me feel likeAf is starting put it that way!
i don't know what to do.... I've rang dr who would only do a urine test (negative) and they won't do bloods, just told me to let nature take its course..But what if I'm pregnant and not getting early pre-natal care, what I've if got hormone problems? I'm not stressed, I'm just a bit concerned.
I obviously don't wanna put any risk to baby if I am pregnant, so I'm not drinking (I barely drink anyway, maybe one glass wine a week!) and I'm not eating nuts and avoiding processed food... But I can't help thinking that surely if I end up not being pregnant it's not fair for the drs to have put me in the situation where I'm acting as if I am 'just in case'
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