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07/09/2012 at 14:05
Hi ladies, waiting for my first AF after mc in August so I can try for an October BFP. Let's get a few ladies and lots of BFPs and baby dust on this thread. Froggy x
Nessie - 14th October
07/09/2012 at 14:51
07/09/2012 at 15:35
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07/09/2012 at 16:12
07/09/2012 at 16:15
08/09/2012 at 16:44
Hi mylittleangel, it is scary going back to work when your colleagues know you were pg and you've mc. My colleagues had obviously decided not to mention it for fear of upsetting me and no one said a word about "Oh dear I'm so sorry etc".
That actually made me feel so awful, like everyone was pretending I'd never been pg or that nothing had happened. Even now I still want to shout "I was pregnant, I was having a baby" just to remind myself it was real.
I think the point I'm trying to make is that no matter what people do or don't say it's always the wrong thing and you will probably feel very upset. I think that's because there is no "right thing" to say.
Really hope it goes better than you are expecting, but at least you are prepared for feeling sad.
Next time we're going to tell both our Mums and that's it.
Fingers crossed for some sticky beans in October for us!
08/09/2012 at 17:19
09/09/2012 at 20:21
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10/09/2012 at 20:32
10/09/2012 at 20:54
Gemgem wishing you a lot of luck for this month. I'm like you, had my D&C on a Friday and was back at work on Monday, being busy helps me cope. But, it was hard and maybe I needed some more time, just be careful the shock and grief can take you by surprise sometimes. Stripey, I'm sorry that AF got you, what a witch. Good luck this month, would be great to get a lot of bfps! I am really impatient too! Desperately hoping to see AF thus week, do you mind me asking how long it was between your mc and your next AF? Mylittleangel, well done. The first day is the hardest and tomo will be easier and every day after that! Try not to let comments upset you, it's hard but I had to keep reminding myself that people mean well. I am so desperate for AF, need to have a scan at the clinc and can start the clomid. Feeling very hopeful but terrified at the idea of another mc. I am so terrified it will happen again, don't know how I'd cope. Babydust to everyone Xxx
12/09/2012 at 21:15
13/09/2012 at 07:52
Hi Fairysare, no sign yet. Day 28 today and before mc my periods were like clockwork every 28 days. I feel awful for thinking it but I want AF so badly because it will mean the "miscarriage month" is over (not forgotten) and it's a fresh start. Until AF arrives I feel like I am in limbo.
If it's not here my Monday which will be day 32 I'll give the clinic a call and see what they recommend. The consultant I see was happy to prescribe nothisterone after 28 days to bring it on but taking that means it will arrive about 8 days after the first pill and I'm scared to take it in case it would have arrived naturally in the mean time!
How long have you been waiting for AF?
13/09/2012 at 20:00
i'll join in for an october bfp please am currently on 2nd AF following my mmc in July. cycle seems to be around 28-30 days but with spotting which i never used to have before the mc.
have got some digi ov sticks for this month and am taking pregnacare. going to use conceive plus lubricant again as that worked for us last time... basically going all out!
hope that for those waiting for AF to return it happens soon and you aren't kept waiting too long it is a horrible feeling.
FC for us all- we all deserve some happiness x x
20/09/2012 at 20:51
22/09/2012 at 11:07
23/09/2012 at 13:44
I am not sure my cycle will have righted itself following my erpc at the beginning of this month, but count me in for testing in October at some point. I know they tell you to wait, but frankly at my age I haven't got time to be hanging around and I do so miss being pregnant. Froggy - are you going to do a list of testing dates upfront?
Nessie - hello to you and welcome back. Are you sure the spotting isn't something else? If its not and AF has arrived, fancy being cycle buddies this month and going forwards?
23/09/2012 at 14:11
23/09/2012 at 19:19
I've started my norithisterone tonight so should have AF at the beginning of October and start the clomid then - fingers crossed I'll be in time for an October BFP - don't want to wait until November! (seems ageees away!).
I'll put the testing dates at the front as and when people let me know what their date is.
Let's hope for some babydust and sticky beans this time. We all deserve it so much!
Gemsgems that is good news, time will fly by to the 11th and you might even have a BFP by then!
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