Hi mylittleangel, it is scary going back to work when your colleagues know you were pg and you've mc. My colleagues had obviously decided not to mention it for fear of upsetting me and no one said a word about "Oh dear I'm so sorry etc".
That actually made me feel so awful, like everyone was pretending I'd never been pg or that nothing had happened. Even now I still want to shout "I was pregnant, I was having a baby" just to remind myself it was real.
I think the point I'm trying to make is that no matter what people do or don't say it's always the wrong thing and you will probably feel very upset. I think that's because there is no "right thing" to say.
Really hope it goes better than you are expecting, but at least you are prepared for feeling sad.
Next time we're going to tell both our Mums and that's it.
Fingers crossed for some sticky beans in October for us!
Froggy x