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29/02/2016 at 05:27
Thanks girls! Wanted to test this morning but ran to the toilet before I could grab a stick! Keep waking up at 4am for a wee! I'm pooped!! Feeling sore today though, like I have a uti which is what my condituon makes me feel like around ov to af. this pain came on when af arrived during last bfp so very worried. And don't feel sick either?! Guess I'll just have to wait until tomorrow...
hows everyone doing? There's quite a few of us in tww isn't there..
29/02/2016 at 10:18
hope you all had a great weekend. Bue try to relax, I really think it sounds very positive, as I said I am going to get excited for you. try not to think of the pain. remember pains happen for bfps. I think we may be wrapping you in cotton wool from tomorrow....
so you are all going to think I am mad but we decided not to try this month..... I know I know, its just the wedding is weighing on my mind and I would be 8 months pregnant and its not that I have an issue with walking up the ailse with a bump I just think its too close. I promise though from next month we are right back on it.
29/02/2016 at 11:18
Happy Monday everyone! :(
Beu fingers crossed for you! Will you not be tempted to test a even little bit early??!!!
Af is due anytime from the 4th-6th for me. Really thought I was having symptoms over the weekend but they have all disappeared today so not feeling hopefully at all. I did do a sneaky frer this morning...oops! BFN of course!
Sio that's a big decision to make but not trying might make you relax more and you could get that bfp?!!!
29/02/2016 at 11:23
Sio that sounds a good decision, make the most of the month off to relax and recharge your batteries emotionally, I realise wedding planning is still stressful though, but hopefully not ttc is one less stress, and it's only for one month. Make the most of it :-)
Beu you must be feeling every minute today but fx for you that no af shows up, and well done for not testing this morning!
29/02/2016 at 11:50
Beu keeping my fingers corssed for you i had pains at the beginning of my pregnancy its just the baby properly embedding in their so don't think negatively.
Sio yer does sound like a good decision, might be good have a month off might de-stress you from the world of ttc and then next month bfp!!
Don't worry ely about no symptoms i had none what so ever.
Hope you all had a lovely weekend :-)
29/02/2016 at 11:57
Wow beu very proud of u not testing early! Crossing my fingers n toes for u for tomorrow!!
Sio that's a big decision but sounds like the right one for u. It's one month in the grand scheme of things n it might be just what u need and I really hope next month is ur lucky month :)!
My n hubby had a chat n didn't really come to a conclusion haha. It was a case of we both still want to try but are both petrified of it all happening again regardless of whether we r home or in the uk?! Everything is telling me not to this month because of timing but I just don't know.
Sorry af arrived looby :(
Good luck everyone, it's normally a good sign when lots of us are in the tww together :)!
29/02/2016 at 12:01
Thank you girls X wish I could go home and wrap myself in cotton wool now sio! Just went to toilet and there's a bit of discolouration in my knickers (sorry tmi!). Worried SHES on her way! I was sooo sure this weekend, now like you ely I'm starting to doubt things..
sio I think that's a really good decision. A nice rest will probably do you both good. Plus if you were 8 months on wedding day you'd probably have to leave everyone up partying whilst you went to bed pooped! having said that, you could be one of those lucky people who post saying I got a bfp and I wasn't even trying haha x
how are you lovely pregnant ladies feeling? Rach you must be so close now?!
29/02/2016 at 12:09
ely you are not out till af arrives. symptoms can come and go and it could still be too early to test. I know I did one and it was bfn and the next week it was bfp.
beu like the others I am really surprised you haven't tested. good on you. I bet it means you are in for a big surprise tomorrow morning.
dinky you do with what you feel is right for you. and if everything is telling you not too then don't. a month off is no harm. like you said to me its one month in the grand scheme of things.
rustic/rach how are you both doing?
29/02/2016 at 12:22
Dinky do what ever feels right, i can imagine its a massive worry the same will happen again but chances are it won't, the best thing to do is to go with what makes you happy.
Im doing well thanks, pretty much finished buying every thing at the weekend started to pack my hospital bag got every in there apart from mine and babies clothes as need washing but should be done by weekend, ive got an ace nightie for when im in labour, its got Simba on it and it says dont make me roar haha i think i will be roaring or at least making some sort of noise haha. 35 weeks tomorrow getting big now, brought a birthing ball on saturday had a bounce on it Saturday night and Sunday i could defo tell it had moved baby down could feel them on my hips all day and lots of pressure.
29/02/2016 at 13:11
Oh Beu fx it doesn't come to anything, your emotions must be all over the place! I had what I thought was af for a couple of days when I got my bfp so I hope it's just ib for you which would match the pain.
All good with me. We picked up the pram and car seat yesterday and put it all together so it's now part of our living room (no where else to keep it) and I started buying clothes etc so its all feeling very real. OH is crazy excited but I couldn't sleep last night as I have started to worry something will go wrong because we have bought stuff now it will jinx it. I know the chances are slim of anything going wrong and it's all in my head. I think the other factor is that I stopped the progesterone cream on the weekend which I attribute 100% to getting the bfp and so using that twice a day has been like a comfort blanket. They say to wean off from 20 weeks which I did and I am now 21 weeks, but I think that's also at the back of my mind.
Ah well life would be empty if I wasn't worrying about something!!
29/02/2016 at 15:18
Thanks girls, I really dont know what I'd do without you x stomach feels bloated and hard but I have dull cramps. Guess I'll find out tomorrow and just need to relax until then - haha! I've impressed myself actually by not testing yet. You've all had a calming effect on me!
dinky we must have posted together so I missed yours. That sounds totally normal Hun. And unfortunately I think you will feel like that no matters hate ntime says. Maybe waiting this month is a good thing though, so you would be at the same stage at home rather than away. Less pressure on yourself. Just be kind to yourself xxxx
rach and rustic I'm proper excited for you! Want to meet them and give them a squidge though :) rustic I feel for you (as a fellow worrier), but you did make me laugh. Your absolutely right, there would always be something else to worry about. I'm sure you will be fine - as long as you relax (how annoying is that when people tell you to stop worrying haha) x
29/02/2016 at 15:24
Rustic totally understand about the worrying im calmer now as i get further through but still worry something could go wrong, think its us women, my husband says im only happy if im worrying haha.
29/02/2016 at 16:30
oh rustic, its understandable you are worrying but try to relax and think all will be ok. yeah like beu said how annoying when people tell you to relax haha but you are over the half way mark now and all has been grand. I think we worry about everything. worrying we won't get pregnant and then when we do worry the whole way through it lol
rach that nightdress sounds fab, I love it.
Beu sorry I missed your post earlier. Could be IB? you are not out till you are out and believe me when I say I have EVERYTHING crossed that you get your bfp tomorrow. Put doubts to the back of your mind. hahaha I definitely don't think I will be one of those people saying oh I got a bfp and we weren't even trying... I hate those people lol
29/02/2016 at 18:39
Ah thank you sio x I hope it was ib but af due tomorrow so perhaps a little too late for that? Having said that I had some serious pains yesterday. Who knows. I hate to say it, but if I'd tested early I'd know by now ;) hahahaha
29/02/2016 at 19:10
Get an early night tonight Beu so the morning comes quicker :-)
29/02/2016 at 19:19
Like Santa :) x
29/02/2016 at 20:15
HO HO HOpefully a BFP for you xx
01/03/2016 at 06:37
It's a faint one but I definitely see it :) must have been all of your fingers crossed. Thanks girls x please can you keep them crossed coz I'm sure my pregnancy symptoms are subsiding. Just like last time with mc..
do you think it should be a stronger line? And did any of you ladies who are pregnant get symptoms then they disappear? Very worried.
How did you get on millp? X
01/03/2016 at 06:41
thoughts please?! I'm 11 dpo today (cd30). Haven't told OH yet as I want to be sure!
01/03/2016 at 07:20
Well! I can see the lines there ladies :)
Beu, mine started hardly visible, I tested the next day and it got darker, then waited a couple of days and did another. If it's getting darker and no af you're in! saying that id wait a few days before jumping about too much (that's just me though).
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