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20/05/2015 at 22:49
Hello , i am not sure if im going to get any respond but i am feeling down and dont know who to share my problem with. I am 21 years old trying to conceive for the last 2 and half years almost in 3 months . Ive had many test including my husband but theres nothing wrong so i dont understand why i cant fall pregnant. I have regular period and tried everything to get pregnant but i still cant get pregnant. Everyone around me is getting pregnant i feel jealous whenever i hear someone i know is pregnant or if i see a pregnant women on the street. Its almost 3 years and cant see myself pregnant , will i ever get pregnant ;(
20/05/2015 at 23:10
Have you discussed the situation with your doctor? Have they given you a timeline for when you'd be eligible for assisted conception if the situation continues? x
21/05/2015 at 11:11
same here. I'm a bit older than you though. I'm 31 and my husband is 35. They usually recommend to wait two years before starting any treatment. I started IUI last cycle and they if negative, I will be eligible for 2 more before starting IVF
Good luck. Keep us posted
01/06/2015 at 23:42
As i said its almost 3 years, ive been trying since july 2012. the doctor said they cant offer us any treatment such as ivf as i am too young .
02/06/2015 at 16:22
Hi, like you we had been trying and for almost 2 years we had nothing, I suffered a mmc in 03/2014 and had some bloods etc done in the following months with no reason for either the m/c or infertility.
As it seemed to be overtaking my life I decided on a break so as of valentines day 2015 we quit the healthy eating plan and ate / drank what we wanted and we only DTD when we felt we wanted to, no ov tests, nomore temping etc ( I'd had enough! ) we just took time to be kind to ourselves. My AF in march was alot less painful, fewer cramps etc and I didn't feel so low as I usually did when AF showed as I was fully expecting it.
As we has agreed on at least 3 months "off" we followed this lifestyle change through and you could if knocked us both over when I missed AF in April.
Dr confirmed pregnancy and told us that stress in her opinion is number 1 cause if infertility, we get so stressed TTC our body stops it as its not in prime conditions for carrying baby.
So think about that holiday or just some time off put TTC out if your mind and relax, and just DTD when you feel in the mood! Maybe stress is affecting you like it did me? And will cooperate when its relaxed a while?.... Its free and worth a try!
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