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12/04/2016 at 02:11
My husband and I have been trying to conceive for almost a year now. First we were using nothing but we started using pressed about a week ago. we want a baby but it's upsetting me every test I take is negative. I'm just needing support or someone story that is like mine but has hope.
12/04/2016 at 12:09
me and my Husband having been trying since August, I have pcos (no cysts) we are trying for our first baby. I totally understand how you feel. I've tried the boots fertility check gel and this last month or two conceive plus gel. Ive also tried supplements such as Cassanovum plus this month (I have had positive tests followed by negatives and then the last couple of days brown spotting followed by red blood and brown but only a very light bleed. No pain) currently on cd48 or if this is just a period then cycle day 2 (only counting cycle from red blood as nothing was in pad before just when I wiped)
I was in a 10 year relationship with a man who didn't want children previous to my Husband. At first when I was young I didn't then over time it changed and I realised I did, I tried to fight it and tell myself I wouldn't be any good as a Mother but in the end I knew I couldnt kerp fighting it. My relationship ended it had its problems other than this and I since met and married my Husband. everything is perfect except our desire to have children hasn't yet been fulfilled. im not getting any younger and with having pcos I fear time is running out.
My Doctor has referred me to a Gynecologist I have my first appointment next month. He struggled to get me referred because they say we must have been trying for a year first.
12/04/2016 at 12:52
We are trying to do this on our own but im going to try to set up an appointment with a fertility clinice as soon as he is able to take a day off. I know I don't need to be stressed but it's so upsetting to keep taking all these tests and getting all negatives it's just upsetting and everyone around me is either pregnant or has had a baby and I feel like if I try to talk to them they wont understand. Thank you for responding I just don't know what to do.
12/04/2016 at 19:15
You've tried on your own for a year, it's time to accept some sort of help at least to take the stress away if nothing else
12/04/2016 at 22:11
Yeah it's just upsetting with test after test.
12/04/2016 at 23:36
you will get there one day just keep going even through dark times and as hard as it is try not to stress. How about taking a break from the trying for a month - go on holiday, comle relax?
Completely relax *
12/04/2016 at 23:43
We do take breaks we actually have vacation in june and taking my family with us.
13/04/2016 at 07:53
Maybe book a break just the 2 of you?
13/04/2016 at 13:04
We took one last week it was just us to. We went and saw my new god Son. Then we went to dinner then movie then rented movies and stayed home and watched them. There not a lot to do in our little town.
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