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14/01/2013 at 00:28
I'm Dannielle. I've been with my partner, Danny, for just a year and a half. I'm only 19. But we are POSITIVE that we want a baby. Together. Judge me.. by all means, I'm young yeah. But I do know what I want so PLEASE, if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing to me.. Problem is, PCOS. I have been dignosed with it since I was 15 and I've never really had it explained to me. I need a new doctor but I also need some friendly pregnancy pals that are like me, TRYING to conceive. Please, feel free to message me! I'm Dannielle. My partner is Danny and we'd like to say HI.
I don't have a clue where to start or what to do. I've started taking pregaday (folic acid and iron tablets) and I've booked a scan with my gynocologist. I've been thinking about trying 'Clomid'? If anyone has used or heard about then, please message me
Good luck to you all that have concieved! Enjoy your bundle of joy ...
and everyone still trying! Don't give up! Good luck. *BABY DUST* xxx
14/01/2013 at 11:22
Hi Danielle, welcome to the site.
Only you can decide when is the right time for you to start a family, some will feel ready sooner than others, there is no right nor wrong.
You've started off fairly well with supplements of folic acid and iron, you may also want to look at calcium and vitamin D also. Seeing your gynocologist is also good for getting those questions and answers on PCOS and pregnancy.
Other than that it comes down to you and your partner. Try not to make sex all about having a baby but remember it is a way for you and he to show how much you love each other (the rest is just an added plus). Best wishes and good luck with your journey to parenthood.
14/01/2013 at 12:49
I think it's great that you both know what you want. I am the other way and am 31 in feb and now just worrying time will be running out if I leave it to much longer, plus Hubby really wants children and he would be an amazing dad. This is our first month ttc and I came off the pill just before my af in December so have fingers crossed for this month but I wont be disappointed as I know it can take time to get back in to a routine and for my body to settle.
Fingers crossed for you and I hope you have a sticky bean very soon!! )
14/01/2013 at 16:38
Kazzie. Thanks so much. I just wanted to make a point of how old I was because I've been judged quite a lot over it. I do agree, some people are not ready but the majority of the time it's not planned. Me and my partner have spoke about it a lot and we BOTH want a child. We have a great support network, a stable home and a good income. I wish I wasn't so badly judged just because of my age! ...I've been referred to a gynocologist so hopefully they can help me and answer my questions. Ohh, we don't. We're young and experimental LOL.
Flutterfly. - Thankyou. We are positive we want a child I know it would bring us both so much happiness and the child will be surrounded my love! Fingers crossed for you hun. Don't worry about your age - My neighbour has actually just fell pregnant and she's 39! Just enjoy yourself in the bedroom and I'm sending *BABYDUST* your way x
17/01/2013 at 11:17
Thank you. I have my fx for you and hope you get your bfp soon. Keep us posted!!
Lots of baby dust to you too!! Xxx
17/01/2013 at 17:17
They might not put you in Clomid just yet, because of your age and b/c you haven't been trying so long. I think that if you don't ovulate they will help you with that.
Not meaning to judge as I am one that wanted to get married at 18 and have kids at 20,22,24 (didn't happen as planned but I did get married to the best guy for me at 25!), but don't you want to get married first? it's something so special and after kids you might not have money or time, etc. Just a question Good luck on everything!
17/01/2013 at 17:18
Oh, and I do have friends that had babies with PCOS
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