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29/07/2014 at 08:41
I'm afraid I'll have quite a negative message here, I need to complain about my husband to someone and since I moved to his country, I have no friends of my own to talk to.
We have been trying for a baby for quite a while now. We are both young and should not have any problems with it apart from the fact, that the women in my family have more and more difficulties getting pregnant with each generation (more MCs, less chance to conceive etc.)
Today we had decided to go to a doctors appointment to have a chat about all this with our GP. About an hour before the appointment (early morning), he decided that we shouldn't both go since there is no point and no one would test us today anyway. What he doesn't get is that it is a difficult subject for me and I just need his help. But my pride stood in the way and I said it's fine, but at the end I decided I can't go on my own so I just stayed home.
He noticed that and said we should go, we can take a bus and still make it. But I don't want it like that. He is not supposed to come only when he sees me upset. I wish he cared a bit more. He also said we shouldn't both go because someone needs to stay home with the dog (???). We are also planning to adopt and he is being just as passive (maybe even more) as about us conceiving.
He tells me he wants a family with me, but when it comes to it, he couldn't care less, I feel no support and I just feel really alone in this.
Sorry about complaining here, I just needed to let it out.
01/08/2014 at 00:55
Feeling for you hun. I can't relate to this at all I'm aftraid but the good thing about this site is the support!
If you would like to PM me, feel free to rant to me!.
Sorry this is happening to you, goodluck hun xx
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