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16/09/2013 at 13:46
basically im cross about lots off things so thought id start a thread for us to moan on.
1st i feel sick!!
2nd tested and got bfns
3rd my cooker broke on sat and wont be fixed until wed
4th my ex is being a pain about divorce and not sending back forms so ill have to pay out more money!!
5th same ex hasnt paid for our 3 kids for months and is being a pain and ignoring csa.
6th i had to leave my 3 year old upset at playgroup today
ok think thats it -your turn!!!!!
16/09/2013 at 14:02
Oh I like this one - I have a few things to moan about, but the worst thing ATM is that everyone around me is pg.....and all the dates co-inside with either my m/c due date, or my due dates this time last year when my wee boy was born/passed away......and its so hard to deal with, because I'm happy for my friends, but so sad for my OH and me.
also - my step son, who is 14, is being a little b.......behaving so badly and causing my OH untold stress, which is not helping us or our TTC quest. His ex is hopeless and I blame her attitude for their son's attitude now - I just wish she would realise how much her actions have affected her son's demeanour now.
I'll defo be back on later to add more!
16/09/2013 at 14:12
oh ann-marie hope having a moan helps!!
ex partners are a night mare to deal with!!!
i can sympathise a wee bit with your other moans as i remember when i had my mmc it seemed every one was pregnant even remeber walking into work and someone had bought a newborn in it stopped me on the spot!!!!!!!!!!
16/09/2013 at 14:42
What a good thread!!!
Where do I start?
I am extremely pi$$ed off with seeing preg women everywhere. To top it up - my colleague is preggo too so I am finding it very hard to cope at the moment. I feel completely different when ladies from this site get their BFPs thou, maybe because I know that all of you have suffered a lot and wanted a baby so bad and that we are all in the same boat really!
I am on CD19 and no sign of ovulation so I am stressing! I have been cramping since before AF started at the end of August, the cramping only stopped for a couple of days. I have been feeling nauseous too. WTH is going on?
16/09/2013 at 15:18
Well I feel like a moan but it's nothing to do with ttc or babies but to do with my OH!!! We bought our first house together in June this year and him and his family aren't really close yet I am VERY close to all my family. His mum has been to the house twice and his sister has 3 little boys so she comes quite regular with them and we have even had her round for tea with the 3 boys etc. I am very welcoming as I love his family as much as I love mine. However when it comes to my family, my OH is not rude as such but sits there with a face like a smacked ar*e and to me he is being very rude. It's like he just can't wait for them to leave and doesn't make any effort with them.
I know it's quite early but I told my mum that this year she could come to me for Christmas dinner because since I have been with my OH we have at it at home on our own and this year I wanted to spend it with my mum. My OH is working this year till 4pm and we usually go to his sisters Christmas Day tea time for a buffet and to see the kids. So today I asked him if we were going to his sisters and whether he would want a christmas dinner when he got in from work. So the options were for my mum to come to us and we would have dinner when he got in OR if he didn't want a dinner and wanted to go straight to his sisters I would go to mums for dinner. So he replied saying have dinner with whoever you want. I said you haven't answered my question and asked him the same and he just said go and have dinner with your mum. He just makes me feel like he is happy to have his family round at OUR house but not my family. I have now just told him this over a message because I am fuming with him and can't wait till I get in to tell him!
ARRRRGGGGHHHH I am soooo angry!
This isn't just a one off it has happened numerous times! When we first moved in my family asked if we were having a bbq as a house warming and my OH basically said no but then a few weeks ago we had all his work friends round (who I've never met) for a bbq and it cost us about £60 for food etc and again I was very welcoming. My mum came round and we were sat in the garden and my OH was just sat in the house watching footy...why oh why is he being like this?
I understand he isn't close to his family but he should understand that I am. Anyway rant over and sorry it's a long one xx
16/09/2013 at 16:05
longer the better and it doesnt matter if it to do with ttc or babies its good to vent!!!!!
cant answere why oh is being like he is men are genrally a mystery to me lol im lucky my oh is fab but the tales i could tell of my ex makes me judge me for being with him as long as i was!!
as for pregnant woman every were!! i know!! its not so bad now we have only just started ttc but before i was desperate to start and oh said we had to wait they were every where at work there was 6 and when i left there to start a new job there was someone there!!!!!
17/09/2013 at 11:24
so im adding to my moan today.
here goes. ive wanted to ttc for at least 6 months and my oh said we had to wait then 4 weeks ago he wakes up and says lets try! excellent! but last night we were talking about the fact i felt sick and wouldnt it be lucky for it to be that easy! but with our luck it wont be that easy he then pipes up that actually it would be our luck and then produces a long list of things that he wants before we have a baby such as him driving a car, new carpets,ect so now what?? my af arrives and we stop?? or what if she doesnt show will it be a case of oh bugger and not the reaction i thought??
17/09/2013 at 21:13
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