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22/10/2013 at 16:27
Just tested and got a positive opk so we could start trying again.
Not sure how I feel!
I'm starting a lot of threads today sorry! I think I just need to write it all down.
22/10/2013 at 16:33
Hi LLL. I was trying to comment on your other thread but md locked me out. Grrr!
I'm coming out the other side of a crapola time, so I can totally relate to how you're feeling. It pretty much sucks. I avoided people, in fact I'm still avoiding one girl whose due date is 2 weeks after waft mine would have been. I think it's totally normal to want to protect yourself and I think people will understand. It takes time to start to feel less sad, but it does happen, it just happens gradually and you'll hardly notice it. Just one day you'll suddenly feel more happy than sad. As for going back to work, only you know if you're ready. Have they offered you a phased return or anything ( I don't know what you do) it really helped me, if I knew I just had to keep a band aid on the emotions for 4 hours I knew I could get through it. I did half days to begin then phased up to full time over the next few weeks.
Sorry to detail this post!
As for opk, are you ready to try again?
22/10/2013 at 17:16
Out of interest, how did you know when to test? Had you had a period?
22/10/2013 at 17:36
I just tend to test later on in the day. I was surprised to get a line. I haven't had a normal period yet, I stopped bleeding fairly quickly, it was like a very heavy period.
Not sure how I feel about trying again. It's a mixture of excited and terrified.
22/10/2013 at 17:39
Hmm not sure I can be bothered to test daily just in case. I think I will wait until I have a period then go on cycle date etc to know when to start testing. In the meantime, we're certainly not going to use contraception (when we start dtd again, that is, but I can't see it will be long!!)
22/10/2013 at 17:42
I think feeling afraid is normal. I'm bloody terrified! Haha!
22/10/2013 at 20:07
I guess just take it a day at a time & start when you feel ready, no rush or pressure on yourself. Take care tri buddy x
23/10/2013 at 09:18
How long is it since your MC LLL? Just curious as to how long it took your body to ovulate. Mine will probably take months! I dont think I'll do OPK's just NTNP iykwim. x
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