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08/12/2014 at 15:28
Hi, I am 20yo and have been trying to conceive for 10months now. my average cycle is about 29days. and have regular periods for about 4 days. so i think i seem pretty healthy.
Today I am actually in cycle day 30. But being a day off isn't that unusual for myself. but to point, i should be starting my next cycle anyway now, if not tomorrow then maybe the day after, and id really like some 'cycle buddies' sooo... if you're cycle times seem to match up, maybe you're in the exact boat as myself and waiting for that red demon to go at any moment! but please follow and chat and what not. like i said I've been trying for 10months now and have been fairly relaxed though the process, I've got an app that helps me track my cycles, but other than that i don't want to cause myself more anxiety and stress, so at least for the first year I'm not testing my ovulation peaks or temperatures. I'm just having regular sex and hoping for the best! :) Thats not to say it doesn't hurt or make me want to scream every time i get my Period but yeah, it'd be nice now to actually have 'friends' people in the same situation to talk to!! chaars x
09/12/2014 at 11:40
ah so period, AF, MP whatever you'd like to call it arrived late last night and so i am definitely on cycle day 1, for anyone who perhaps want to be cycle buddies?
for some reason, maybe because its the end of the year and christmas is around the corner, but both myself and partner feel almost extra disappointed/ sad this time.
at what point is it okay to start worrying??
I have a large family, where usually the women get pregnant with just a wink.. but for some reason i don't seem blessed with this. i mean for example two of my family members have conceived during the time I've been trying. and no they weren't trying. I feel guilty for saying that although i am super exited to meet the new little additions (due in February and March) i just know deep down that i'll be saying 'i should be this fortunate..'
I'm 20 years old.. i thought now was meant to be the stage of my life where it's easier to get pregnant...
09/12/2014 at 11:59
Hello Bronjon and welcome to MFM!
Sorry to hear about the arrival of AF: it's particularly rubbish at this time of year, isn't it?
Lovely to see you're looking for cycle buddies.
Just so you know, there is another cycle buddies thread over here: http://www.madeformums.com/forum/trying-to-conceive/looking-for-cycle-buddies/168646.html
You're very welcome to join everybody there, if you'd like to - they're a lovely lot.
But, if you're happy with your own thread instead, that's absolutely fine. There's no reason why we can't have two (or three or ten!) threads running at the same time.
Good luck with your next cycle. We've all got our fingers crossed for you!
09/12/2014 at 12:36
okay brilliant thanks x
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