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09/09/2015 at 11:42
Me and my partner have decided to try for a baby. However, we recently got engaged and are wondering whether we should get married before having a child or not.
I'd really appreciate any advice or tips.
09/09/2015 at 18:32
Hey how old are u ? I would say get married and have fun for a year then baby I have been married 2 years and glad we have wait till now because going out with someone is diffenet then being married it takes work and put I baby in there I would be much harder but that what works for me x alana
09/09/2015 at 20:09
I work at a daycare and there are a lot of single moms it seems like after the baby they last about a year and a half but the married ones may have more to fight for . but life does happen !!
09/09/2015 at 21:41
It all comes down to what is right for you and your partner. There's no right order to do things!
My husband and I done things in a crazy order! Went on holiday and got engaged there, came home and found out I was pregnant then moved in together (we didn't even live in the same region by this point). We are now 2 yrs married and have a 4yr old and ttc number 2.
I think the advantage to getting married first would be enjoying spending time together as a couple and making the most of experiencing things that perhaps wouldn't be as easy with kids. Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't change my situation for the world! X
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