AF arrived today, a bit late, and having built my hopes up. :cry:

But feel relieved I know where I am at if nothing else.

Will start with the fertility monitor tomorrow, so at least thats more likely to help me figure out when conceiving is more likely. Determined to stay positive.

Hubby says he does not want to know when peaks and highs areetc. Is anyone else not telling their other halves? he says he thinks it'll make it more of a chore if he knows?

x

Sorry to hear AF found you ! DH likes to know where we are at - although he says I don't need to tell him - he can tell himself - normally because he gets into bed to find me with nothing on when we need to BD ! Ha ha ! Does take the romance out of it ...

lol thats subtle!!

Sorry she found you. At least you have the monitor to help things along. xx

Aww, sorry she found you hun. Is it a Clearblue monitor you'll be using? I've got one and its fab, really helps to take some of the pressure off as you know when the best times to bd are.

Hope next month is your month,
Caroline xxx

Thanks Caroline, yes it is the clearblue monitor. Will be my first try using it and I really hope it gives me some control back. All this looking for symptoms routine is so hard!

Its got some great reviews and some not so good, so will interesting to see how it all works.

Good luck to everyone

Hiya Monologirl
Sorry af arrived hun,butlike you said at least you can get onto a new month.
My ohis the same and doesnt want to know when i'm peak fertility,although tbh he prob does know i just dont mention it,lol.
Alot of men are like that though,it can put alot of pressure on them.
Good luck getting ya bfp.
xx

Sorry shes found you. Good luck for this month.xx

Hello Manolo...Snap! i got a bfn this morning....(boo!) Just waiting for af to arrive - but i do have abit of pink cm, so she might be coming soon!

I am starting the ov sticks aswell. i hear what yr hubby is saying about not wanting to know and i kinda agree....i think i will tell my hubby bcos he wants to know - he is quite excited about the sticks haha!! (just like Chandler in Friends) xxx

sorry af arrived hun. hope next cycle is your cycle for bfp!!! x x

Good luck for next cycle manolo x

Good luck for this cycle