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Trying to conceive
06/12/2015 at 00:41
Hiya Im new hear and im just looking for some advice :)
Me and my partner have been trying for nearly a year now for a baby we have had no luck , I have always been quite regular apart from a few days late here and there, nothing out of the ordinary .I downloaded a couple of apps onto my phone to make sure I know exactly when my period is meant to come so I can track ovulation . My last period was September 27th till October 3rd. My cycle usually is every 28days . Well my period has been a no show since then which is brilliant but I feel as though I am keeping the pregnancy test people in business with the amount we have brought and not one positive !! Everything from clearblue tests to the ultra sensitive ones from amazon to even poundland packs. Been testing at all times of the day. I also was away from home so i paid for a pregnancy blood test which came back negative. I was by then a couple of weeks late only. For the last couple of weeks I have been getting symptoms such as headaches, I am tired constantly , also last few days my hands have been swelling during the evening time which my partner has noticed. More noticeably I have been a hormonal wreck i just cry .. all the time and about everything that you could possibly think of, i have not felt so out of control of my emotions since i was a young girl and just started my periods. I also really bad food cravings, I like my home cooked meals but all I can think about is Macdonalds or Chips . Last week I also noticed after sex a really dark brown/black blood clot when i wiped (Sorry TMI) but thats it . Also Milky discharge and almost periody cramps which come and go and I almost think Im getting my period but they just disappear .Also sex is odd its almost as though I feel very different down there even my partner is finding it weird it sounds silly but as though its not me .My breasts are just two massive mounds of pain, I went from a comfy C do a D ,my nipples and cracked and god forbid if i even attempt to put a bra on. When I came home I went to the GP and he proved to be useless he touched my belly and he said well its soft and that to check for thrush.. I felt like screaming.. We are both stuck at the moment in a really bad Limbo I rather know one way or another we both want a child so much but this not being sure is making us confused, there also is a family history of women in my family not showing positive pregnancy tests. Im not sure what we should do, try going back to a different doctor? Ive heard of women being sent to get an ultrasound but it being scheduled for 6months time . Has anyone been in a similar circumstance? Any advice would be appreciated :):)
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