hi i feel the same as you, we have two girls and i would love a 3rd but my husband doesnt want any more yet. we have a 6 and 3 1/2 half year old. i think a third would complete our family, while our girls are still young and we are would be great. but my husband said he doesn't want any atm but maybe in 5 years or so when we have more money etc we can. this seems too big of gap and don't wanna be back at the start put a career on hold etc when my girls then would be nearly high school age. I had to come off the pill last sept, had a withdrawal bleed and then a af 33days later and then another 33days after this cycle however is now 48 days and still no sign, did a test last week and was bfn

. I know its not a method but we are using the withdrawal method as he doesnt like comdoms and have been told by the doctors to give my body a rest of the pill. Im hoping for an accident and i think if my hubby was that strong he didnt wanna another he wouldnt use the withdrawl method as its not 100%.