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Trying to conceive
16/05/2014 at 14:11
So I suffered a mc almost 12 months ago. Since then my cycles have not been the same as before. I have only had 5 since the. Ranging from 34 days all the way to 70 day cycles. Obviously the longer cycles really get to me and all the time I get my hopes up thinking that there is a chance I have gotten pregnant,
I visited the dr's in March and explained to her everything that has been going on since the MC. I have also had mid cycle spotting which is something new for me,along with irregular cycles. Before the mc since my teens my cycles were always 46 days long.
I have three children and never had a problem getting pregnant with them (fell first time after 6months, 2nd after 4months, 3rd after 1st month, and with the MC I fell pregnant on the first try also)
All this is new to me. The DR told me to go back once it had been a year. She did swabs and a thyroid test (everything as A o.k.) but I am wondering what is the next step, what will she do when I go back? She never really told me what would happen?
I have not really been thinking about getting pregnant too much, I have relaxed a lot over the past few cycles, we have still be BD'ing regularly though. But I can't help but feel as though this is all my fault. My fault that we lost our baby and now all this is my fault that I can not get pregnant again.
Can anyone offer any insight into what to expect the dr will do? or any help or advice in regards to ttc? I feel a little lost as all this feels kinda new to be since with my other pregnancy they happened easily ( well looking back sitting here now it feels that way)
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