i know how desperate we all are for our bfps but hey if we havnt done it this month for xmas we can drink,shop,eat what we like,not have to worry about nausea or anything lol.just trying to increase some pma because i know im going to be gutted and im sure you all will be too if we dont get our bfp x

this is a great atttude and I need some pma today as AF is due.

If she arrives I shall be gutted, totally gutted, but will spend Christmas relaxing, and trying to forget about it all.

Whenever I feel down at the mo, i try to envisage this time next year ...I hope I have a little person sitting on my knee, !

lots of baby dust everyone

yeah just trying to keep it up lol.lets hope its not too much longer ey x

Good thinking, but i seem to have lost most of my PMA this month - i feel blue :=(
Oh well, Xmas is coming so something to look forward to!

Can i borrow some of your PMA please manologirl? - I'd love to have a lo on my knee next Xmas :=)

xx

yes girls emma is totally right although you all want bfps so desparately you will totally be able to enjoy xmas and over indulge in everything you love!!! This will be my first dry christmas for about 10 years!!! *cry cry*

Sending you all lots of festive pma

xxx

im now thinking the same as i can feel af is on her way - worst cramps ever. being on the pill then impant for o many years id forgotten what 'normal' af's were like! its awful!! im going to enjoy christmas though and think positive about our chances of bfp in the new year!

I completely agree, i think that is why this month I am not completely obsessed with it all!! We are going away with frinds to the Lake district for New Year and there will be plenty of indulgence in achohol, so at least I will be able to join in!!

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seems like a good idea to think like this,i think we should keep bumping this up to the top!

We could think of it as our last big celebration before our January BFPs

wow thats it girls if we dont get it positive thinking is the way forward.and a fresh start in the new year.but good luck to everyone who is on the wait x

Unfortunately my 2ww will be over Christmas as I am due AF on the 1st.

I have been doing really well with cutting down the alcohol so far though, don't seem to be missing it so much as i did last time I tried to stop all drinking for a while. Have had a few glasses of wine at AF time but not much else.

I have also been trying to find alcohol-free alternatives - Cobra 0% beer is drinkable, am going to try Alcohol free Kopparberg Pear cider next!

Good luck to everyone waiting for a Christmas BFP :\)

hey thistle someone metioned about tesco doing alcohol free wine i think it was in pregnancy forum x

thanks i might have a wee try of that too.

bump

I just got a date for my bone scan and its monday, so assuming there is nothing dreadfully wrong we are offically ttc number 2 as of Thursday!!!

hope it goes ok lottie and neve x

Thanks!