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25/05/2015 at 03:13
I'm venting! My partner and i have been trying to conceive for 18 Months now and i am just so frustrated, every where i l look people are getting pregnant just like that! why is it so hard for us! I got my AF 2 days ago and i just get this horrible sinking feeling of what if it never happens for us... when someone announces they are pregnant or even talks about how great being a mother is or i spend time with nephews i have so much sadness when its announced that i just want to cry!! I don't want to feel like that towards people! we have started the process of being tested for any issues and will be referred to a specialist soon for further evaluation but it doesn't make the frustration any less when everyone else has it so easy......
25/05/2015 at 09:29
You vent away hun there are a lot of ladies here in the same boat who completely understand, myself included! I know it's frustrating & makes it all the worse for wanting it so badly. I had a friend who fell pregnant while still (apparently ) taking the pill & with a one night stand, that really broke me I thought here's us really trying for months on end & she gets pregnant just like that. Sometimes I can coo over babies sometimes I have to make my excuses & leave because I can't bear the pain I'm feeling and just end up a big crying red eyed mess! But it's OK to feel that way & only natural, don't feel guilty for feeling that way I know I did but now I'm realising it's normal & I'm not being a horrible person it's just my emotions get the better of me sometimes.
I hope your tests go well & you get your much hoped for bfp soon x
25/05/2015 at 10:00
Thank you!! It makes me feel better to know it's okay to feel this way and I'm sorry to hear you to are struggling to conceive, I agree totally that sometimes yes I can be all over babies and other times I just have to remove myself from situations where I will Be around them my partners sister just had a baby and she did think that I had some kind of major problem with her and it just caused drama, it's not like that I just got to a point where it was just to hard.... If I hear "stop trying and it will happen" one more time I may scream I have a great partner he's so lovely to me when I'm a blubbering mess because AF has arrived but i know he really wants a baby to.... good luck to you!!!! Hopefully we both get our little Meracle babies soon!!!! X
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