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21/06/2013 at 06:56
So today's the day I turn 26, the longest day of the year. It means we've been trying for nearly 11 months with no joy. What's worse is it now means my hopes of being pregnant at 25 are gone. I feel so sad because I've already had one ovarian cyst at 19 and it was removed after trying for 8 months doc sent me to gyna for ultrasound showing I have another cyst, since then my hopes are shattered I have another apt Monday I'm dreading it, the results of ct scan should be in too, my last apt was over a month ago and all I can think about is my womb is empty and I'm not going to achieve my plan of being pregnant at 25. My old gyna said I could go through menopause at 30. I feel so sad that my birthday has arrived and feel like a failure :'(
21/06/2013 at 14:31
Bless you babe I'm so sorry you feel so low. Try and think positive there's always light at the end of the tunnel. Has the doctor told you what the next steps are, fertility treatment, clomid anything like that? X
21/06/2013 at 17:20
Hi thanks for reply I need a bright light like a flood light or head light on high beam! Feel sad, can't help cry. No I'm hoping I get answers on Monday although I'm sure I won't get answers I always have loads of questions left unanswered
21/06/2013 at 17:48
Im so sorry you are feeling so down KP ;-( think it makes it harder when you've had a plan and it's out of your hands as to wether it happens.
Have they said if you'll be getting that cyst removed?
I had every intention to have 4 children, and to be ttc number 2 at this point in my life at 25. I had it planned out in my head for years before any of it would happen, but that obviously never happened! Just got to try and shake those thoughts off.
I know it makes you feel like you failed, but you really musn't think like that. You obviously have been doing all that you are able, and nobody (including yourself) can ask any more of you then that! Try not to give up hope, sending lots of positive vibes your way hun x
Happy Birthday by the way, try and enjoy it x
25/06/2013 at 13:49
How did it go on Monday? I am sorry that you're feeling so low It really must be an awful situation!
I really hope you got some positive news, and that you get your BFP soon
25/06/2013 at 15:20
never give up hope lovely, i know it sounds daft but get the happiest music, some wine on the go, and a good night with your partner and it might just work - did for me and it was my last resort before ivf, thankfully the ivf was never needed and i'd poo poo'd the old relaxing method for nearly 2 years. lots of luck to you i hope your health problems get sorted out, ttc is hard enough without nature throwing health stuff in there too so i send my good luck wishes x
26/06/2013 at 09:34
Hi Rachael thankyou for your well wishes. I am trying not to look at ovulation days and fertile days each month so thst if it happens- it happens but of course this is easier said than done!!
26/06/2013 at 11:01
hey have you had an AMH blood test done? this will give you an idea of your fertility and whether you may need any help with assisted conception, all the best x
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