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09/06/2016 at 03:19
I have been following my ovulation and making sure my fiance & I BD every other day and twice the day I ovulate. Last month I thought 95% I was pregnant. Since the day I ovulated and we BD, I had symptoms. My boobs were sore, I was tired & I had cramps & back pain. This lasted about 2 weeks and up until I unfortunately got my period 3 days early. When I got my period my boobs were no longer sore and I wasn't so tired. I still had cramps & back pain, because that comes with my periods usually.
I'm wondering what happened.. was I pregnant & implantation wasn't successful? It couldn't have been in my head.... Let me know if any of you experinced anything similar. Hoping for good news soon!!
09/06/2016 at 06:55
You may be trying too hard. All that BDing is going to see you producing less of the vital bodily fluid needed to conceive because you have less time to restock. Your body is going to know that you are desperate for a baby so will mimic pregnancy (you could even get a small bump).
Relax a bit more, enjoy being with your partner & remind yourselves why you got together. Celebrate the little milestones - when you started dating, birthdays, Christmas, first moving in together, engagement/wedding...& enjoy the odd date night. You may find more success this way 😉
Best wishes & good luck
09/06/2016 at 14:49
Thank you for your reply Kazzie. I will try to relax more and even if I have symptoms I will ignore them until I get a positive test :)
13/06/2016 at 14:44
This is happening with me too. Overthinking doesnt help and over reading too doesn't help. gotta keep smiling ;) good luck
13/06/2016 at 14:52
I don't take any notive of symptoms. All the months I wasn't pregnant i had way more symptoms than the one I was! It's highly unlikely you'd get any symptoms before implantation anyway. I had literally no signs at all until the day i was due on,which came as a huge surprise after a year of symptom spotting!
13/06/2016 at 14:59
Do you still of spotting ?
13/06/2016 at 15:12
Yeah that's what I realized later. I told myself the month I have no symptoms will probably be the month I get pregnant. I need to relax & stop thinking about "I might be pregnant"
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