Hi everybody, have been doing the everyother day method this month and as much as i hate to say it im finding it a bit annoying now!!! Have been doing it for 3 wks and i dont really want to stop until my af comes as im not using ov sticks or anything!!! As some of u know my hubbie is away on the 15th in the forces and wont be bk till the end of nov so this is our last chance till he gets bk!! I feel bad sometimes that im putting to much pressure on us b4 he goes, when we should be enjoying our time together!!! And another thing, my past two cycles have been 31 and 37 days so dont wana stop bding for another wk in case we miss it!!!! Soz to go on, just were ttc in secret, and i have no one else to moan to at the mo, apart from poor oh!!!! Thanks girls xxx kim xxx

Hi kim

Moan away. Poor you i really feel for you why does everything have to be sooooooooo complicated. I bet your hubby isnt complaining? Im on day 6 so nearly at that time. I do think it does put alot of presure on your relationship whilst ttc. I feel terrible when my af arrives as my partner always looks that disappointed and keeps askin throughout the month do you think we've cracked it this month. Well hopefully your every other day method has worked. I got everything crossed for you. You got any symptoms this month? jen xx

Thanks hun, just feeling really tired at the mo, my boobs are sore, but they have been every month so not looking at that as being a symptom anymore!!! Feeling a bit sick, but then my lo was ill at the wkend as was oh so not holding to much hope with that either!!! Duno whats wrong with me, just feeling really negative, feels like its never guna happen, prob not helpen as i know this is the last try for a couple of months!!! Thanks for listen hun xxx kim xxx

Anytime honey. jen xx

We're going to try the every other day method this month. I have ov sticks and fertility monitor but been told that you can detect a LH surge more than once before you actually ovulate some months so not trusting them 100% anymore. Figured it can't do any harm. Trouble is MR Jules just told me he's goign to working long hours around the time I'm supposed to be ovulating so bit nervous he'll be too tired for any BDing. Hmm. seems like there isn't a fail proof method. Good luck to you. Hopefully it'll work xxx