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18/01/2016 at 15:39
I have been trying to conceive for 8 months now, but according to my dr it's only been 5 (she won't count 3 months after getting off of BC pill). I started tracking my ovulation after my last period. hubby and I were having sex every other day during high fertility and on peak day. I really thought it was going to be the month, esp when my breasts became tender on the 7th and is now the 18th. I start my period usually a week before the end of the month so my period is very early which is odd because I was 5 days late last month. I'm wondering if this is implantation bleeding? I took a test and was negative. Please help! I am starting to get depressed about all this.
19/01/2016 at 09:48
Give it afew more days and try to relax a little I know easier said than done..
it took my sister in law 3 years to have a baby with 2 failed ivf attempts. She just accepted the fact she thought she'd never have children.. We went to Vegas had a wild time (she's not even a drinker) and twi weeks after we came home she fell Pregnsnt.. She said she was putting far too much pressure on herself & she wishes she hadn't all they years pf trying
you will fall pregnant honey and I believe you will
if your late and fire that's all good signs!!
i had negative and positive tests on the same day!
lpts of love xz
19/01/2016 at 13:21
Thank you for the response. It's nice to hear from others. So happy for your sister! I knew I would put pressure on myself which is why I decided to stop taking the pill when my husband was wanting to wait a little longer to conceive. after 6 months (in including the 3 months my dr won't) of it not happening I have now began to stress about it. I try not, but it's hard. See, when I was 19 (8 years ago) I found out a had chlamydia. I have no idea how long I had it as my boyfriend at the time had cheated on me numerous times. i cry in my doctors office about this and she doesn't seem to get it. This is a huge, dark cloud constantly over my head and I would just like some tests done for peace of mind.
19/01/2016 at 13:36
I am exactly the same like you CJokie.. hubby and i really started ttc in dec.. but i am pretty sure i got my calculations wrong.. this month i am hoping i hve done enough.. i am in the tww right now.. 9 dpo.. i have had such strong symptoms always making me feel like this is it.. this month nothing really .. apart from a few ovulation type pulls on 2 occasions.. just hang in there.. i know it is easier said than done.. but i know it will hpn when it is meant to.. sending baby dust your way.. :)
24/01/2016 at 22:37
please please don't think chlymadia all they years ago had effected you.. If it had I'm sure you'd have had symptoms or pain or something.. Your kinda going crazy..
I'm scared for my booking appointment as they test you it everything.. i know I'm fine but I worry about everything.. I didn't even know it was normal for women to have discharge.. I'd convinced myself I had cancer!!! How crazy is that.
my honest opinion is -I'm quite into this and you might think I'm crazy but here goes..I'm not some crazy girl I'm 29 love clothes makeup and nights out etc(well I did)
visualise!!!!!! If you have a picture of what you want in your head you will get it. Your going to think I'm nuts but I'll write this as no one knows me here ..
I was always scared id never have children.. Like ever so I always denied the fact (even though inside I thought one day) but is never tell anyone that
id start visualising at my 30th birthday dinner being pregnant.. Even having dreams I was pregnant at my birthday..
I KNEW I was pregnant even two weeks before my period
i kept having dreams of a bump and telling everyone
low and behold my birthday is in two weeks!!!i am in shock but I honestly think positive mindset and visualising is the key!yiu should read "the secret" by rhonda Byrne
its my sister in laws mantra she said she'd never have gotten pregnant without it xxxx
24/01/2016 at 22:38
Btw I didn't mean to write your going crazy I meant to say your having crazy thoughts!!
24/01/2016 at 22:47
Closmith, thank you for the positive words. There are months where I truly believe I'm pregnant and will p myself pregnant and how I'm going to tell my family, then take a test and it comes out negative. It's so hard not to think my past has affected me. Just trying to stay positive and not give up hope! These forums really seem to help keep the spirits up too.
24/01/2016 at 23:26
I honestly believe that everything in life is to teach you a lesson.. You have learned yours!! How much worse do you want to make yoirsekf feel??? No one deserves to feel that was and stop tormenting yourself!
Must won't have its just becUse now you want it so much and it's not happening ..
Take your past oit.. Say you only had one partner.. Your bf.. You sound like me you'd still think it was your fault!!! There could be a million reasons
your bf sperm fkr example?? I mean it might not be all you!!
howwvwr I think your going to be ok and I really think going and getting all these tests is going to make you worse.. Endless doctors appointments that are only going to stress you out.. Xx
24/01/2016 at 23:28
This phone is rediculous I lt looks like I'm drunk replying lolol it's just cuz j type fast x
24/01/2016 at 23:37
haha it's ok, I can make out what you're saying. I really appreciate you taking time to talk to me about this. I have talked to close family and friends about this and none of them have said the things you have said to take some weight off of my shoulders. It makes me step back and take a sigh of relief. Are you TTC?
25/01/2016 at 22:39
It's always easier to give advice when you don't know the person. Your lucky to have friends and family you can confide in So that's something!
this is why I feel so guilty .. Two close friends of ours are esbgyng children but it's not happening.. One is on the waiting oust for ivf and the other has been told she may not ever convince without ivf either..
Children have always been a grey area..something my husband and I never really spoke about. We've always been happy just the two of us!
I've always in the back of my mind had a fear I'd never have children!! sd we don't have any..I then honestly was out alot at party's and getting so drInk I felt like if nothing to wake up for u started thinking what if I have children.. I started having dreams about being pregnant and thinking what if ?? and I was so shocked when I found out (even though I knew I was)
so I feel soooo guilty!!xx
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