Getting Pregnant <
Trying to conceive
03/04/2014 at 19:30
Hi ladies, Hope you're all well? I've not been on much as just trying to forget about the miscarriage. I'm much more positive this time as the baby never even developed and was just a sac but I'm just hoping and praying my time comes soon as time is not on my side anymore! (I'm 42 in May).
My work colleague visited us at work with her new baby boy for the 2nd time since my mc and I have a quick look at him but then have to walk away because I know if I looked at him too long I'd start crying, I couldn't possibly hold him! I ABSOLUTELY HATE FEELING LIKE THIS!!!
I watched OBEM last night (which was always my favourite programme) but I just feel so sad and jealous of the ladies on it!
My hubby just keeps asking if we are trying again and can I go through another MC but how do I just throw the towel in when we've been trying for 2 and a half years??!!
sorry for the rant ladies xxx
03/04/2014 at 19:43
Hi carioke , hope you are ok hun , I know how devastating it can be , I said to the midwife after 2nd mmc that maybe it was natures way of saying that we had had all the children we were meant to have n maybe we should give up , she said we would never forgive ourselves if we gave up n she was right , so glad we didn't give up , n time wasn't on my side either , I really hope you do try again , we are all here for you whenever you need us , x x take care n look after yourself , you will be a mummy again - I feel sure of it , just don't give up hope x x
03/04/2014 at 19:46
Good luck hun nice to c u back x
03/04/2014 at 20:23
I too felt exactly the same way as you hun after both my first and second mcs and just felt like it was never going to happen for us. I am currently 8w5d & so far so good. As Eve says please do not give up hope. Don't get me wrong I am constantly expecting the worst to happen 3rd time around.
We are all here for you if you need to talk. Finding this website is/has been my saving grace, I honestly don't know how I would of coped without it. x x
04/04/2014 at 13:31
Thanks ladies, I'm trying so hard to keep hopeful but can't decide whether to really try or just try forget about it in the hope it just happens!!
I'm so glad your pregnancies are going well,
Hope you're doing well with your little one LH86
04/05/2014 at 00:26
How are you doing carioke? X
05/05/2014 at 09:54
Hi SW2, I'm doing ok thanks. AF showed end of April and I worked out we'd dtd a day before ov so I've made the decision to have a couple of months out where I'm not even going to think about ttc; No checking temp, no testing for ov or symptom spotting! I actually feel better already!
How are you?x
05/05/2014 at 15:34
Glad to hear that Carioke... Believe me i know how it feels to just desperately want to be pregnant again but also the huge stress that places on us... It becomes all consuming! A break im sure will do you good... Make sure you treat yourself! x
05/05/2014 at 20:28
Trying to stay positive after 2 or more m/c in a row is hard, and i found stopping the temps, and ovulation testing did help me relax a little, even now as i head to 15 weeks im finding it hard to bond with the bump for fear some thing will happen and it will get taken from me yet again.
I hope your keeping well xxx
06/05/2014 at 19:56
Thanks ladies, It must be hard to relax Sarah but I hope everything is fine and you can be excited and enjoy your pregnancy xx
07/05/2014 at 09:22
hope your ok huni, so far its not going to well, baby seems fine ect but its me, im finding it hard to bond with the bump which is heartbreaking as i so wanted this, every day im just living in fear that things are not ok or some thing will happen again, a lot of the girls are saying after my 20 weeks scan i should feel better, i do hope so xx
10/05/2014 at 12:44
I'm sure you will. If you don't start relaxing and enjoying being pg you might regret wasting your time worrying and it won't be doing you or the baby any good!!
I'm sure everything will be perfect! Keep positive!
Take care ladies xx
Continues below ad
Nice to see you! Please do nose around, sign up and join in.