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26/07/2015 at 17:57
Hello everyone. I'm new here just want to have some support & chat with others that have saddly been in my shoes.. I have two children girls 8 & 4. Recently wanted to try again came off my contraceptive patch in January fell pregnant in March unfortunately I had a mmc in May after an early scan (no reason for the scan just always been a paranoia) but something felt different from my first two pregnancies I literally felt nothing other than peeing on a stick daily I wouldn't of known I was pregnant..
I was 7 weeks scan showed nothing had grown just a little yolk sac confirmed my worst fears. I had a natural mc completed by 1st June AF came exactly 28 days later & we are now trying again so desperately want to be pregnant although I know I'm going to be a complete nervous worrier the next time!
Just didn't believe it would happen to me as I had perfectly healthy pregnancies births & babies I have been tracking my fertile days on a few apps now and my friend recommended using pre seed as that helped her fall pregnant in her 1st month of using it. I'm a few days post ovulation now hoping we caught this month!! According to my app I should test on 11th August if no AF! ????
hoping to hear happy endings after mmc..
26/07/2015 at 20:48
Hi teeteee. Sorry to hear of your loss. Miscarriage is such a rough thing to go through. I myself have had 2 (my first 2 pregnancies)... 1st was a mmc like you which we found out about at 9 weeks, second we lost very unexpectedly at 9 1/2 weeks after a very healthy / normal scan at 8 weeks. Good news for you to know is that my third pregnancy is goinv great! I am now 31 weeks pregnant with a very lively little boy
unfortunately miscarriage is so very common that very many women will experience one in their lifetime. Good news is though that having just one does not increase your chances at all of having a second (lots of research has shown this) & the fact that you have had 2 healthy pregnancies before means you know it's unlikely there are any issues that are preventing you from having a healthy pregnancy again... You just had the unlucky roll of the dice with your last pregnancy.
theres a really great longstanding thread running called trying to get pregnant after a miscarriage part 3 where there ar loads of us ladies in the same position as you who can offer advice & support as you move forward... Come join us if you like.
26/07/2015 at 21:05
Thank you will look for it now ????
26/07/2015 at 21:10
Also so very happy for you it's so nice to hear happy endings!! just can't wait to be big round & pregnant again lol loved both my pregnancies
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