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25/09/2014 at 13:24
Hello. I am very new to all this forum stuff! My husband and I have been TTC since June...I know this is not a very long time yet, but I am getting so impatient! Does anyone have any hints or tips, or just general bits of advice for a couple trying for their first baby? Anything would be greatly appreciated...it's always good to chat to people who are going through a similar experience, when it's all so new! x
25/09/2014 at 19:09
Hi, have u been tracking ovulation?x
27/09/2014 at 01:57
Hello!!! Yes you need to find out when you are fertile. Then start having sex a couple days before that. And just keep having sex regularly. Even the day after your ovulation day!!! Try and have sex in the morning where his speam count is the highest. When you have sex and about to finish, make sure you are laying on your back. So when he is finish, you are laying on your back, and lay there for 20 mins. Do not pee during this time. Do not use any personal lubricant either. Dont stress, just have fun!!!!
27/09/2014 at 04:01
Ok I was diagnosed with PCOS about a year ago. So my doctor prescribed me Clomid to take on days 5-9 50mg. On cd10 I was curious and decided to take an ovulation test that morning it was negative I tested again that evening around 2pm Sept 5th 2014 and got a positive so me and my boyfriend started BD went to the bathroom and noticed some discharge white and watery like and called my doctor and she said it was normal.I also checked my cervix and noticed it was softer than usual.. I tested again that night about 9pm and got a negative??? Me and the boyfriend is still BD So I waited and tested on CD13-18 still no ovulation so I gave up on testing. Now around cd 19 my breast have become really sore cant even lay on them.. and im going to the bathroom a lot more I wake up in the middle of the night just to go, I have been having some really weird dreams that makes no sense lol.. On CD 21 I used a PT I kno probably to early and got a BFN.. So I waited to see if I was going to get AF on the 22nd seen as I got it Aug 22 after taking Provera to bring it on.. So on CD 28 no AF breast still sore little bit of cramping on my left side went away.. On CD30 breast still sore still waking up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom and it feels like AF I on on the way wake up the next morning and still nothing but know im having dull pains in my lower stomach that comes and goes.. me and the boyfriend still BD I have done POAS about 10 times and still BFN.. Now im on CD32 and still no AF so I tested again today and still BFN ugh its so frustrating im just about ready to throw the towel in and give up... its so many women that I work with that are pregnant and it seems very easy for them to have babies and im going through all this.. At my age it shouldn't even be this hard to have a baby.. My boyfriend is still confident that it will happen but im not to sure.. Im sorry long post but I really needed to let some of this out with people who are going tough the same thing.. i have a doctors apt on the 30th which is in a few days so i will definitely no whats going on then.. But do you guys think its possible that i just ovulated late and its to early to test??? me and the boyfriend still BD just incase i did ovulate late..
27/09/2014 at 04:05
and some information on bbt never did it before but I was told that it is helpful and a lot cheaper than the opk test..
27/09/2014 at 04:21
I know how frustrating it may be to get pregnant, and its just not as easy to as other woman. Every woman is different. But there is hope! Sounds to me you did ovulate. And im just curious, how old are you? And have you ever been on any birth control before you started to ttc? It also sounds to me that you are having ppregnancy symptoms. But then it can also be your period about to come. Good luck on your doc appt. Keep us posted.
27/09/2014 at 04:53
Im 23.. and yes I was on BC due to the Pcos to regulate my periods.. But was only on them for about 4 months then me and my boyfriend decided to start trying for a baby.. and after about a year in a half of trying nothing happened.. So I went to my doctor and she decided to start me on the Clomid.. I think their pregnancy symptoms to but its just not showing up on the tests, part of me think maybe its just to early to test seen as I don't no exactly when I ovulated.. Because I stopped testing after CD18 because of all the negatives, and on Cd 10 I got a brief positive and then a negative later on that day. But Ive had PMS symptoms all my life up until I stopped getting my periods at 16.. And usually when my breast were sore my period would come on a few days later.. But they have never been how they are now like their really swollen and sore to lay on. I have been having some white CM as ell.. I wanna stay positive but I don't want to get myself all excited just to be let down you no.. My boyfriend even says that it feels different when we BD. And I will definitely keep you posted.. Im glad someone understands where im coming from because I felt like I was going crazy lol
27/09/2014 at 06:34
Yeah you are young. I am 24 and have a four year old son. I got pregnant with him after stop using my birth control within two weeks!!! I now stop using the mini pill and have not had a period yet. So i do not know if i ovulate yet or not. If your period are irregular its hard to know when your ovulating and then miss an the important time to have sex. I stop the mini pill because me and my bf want to have a baby too. Its been three weeks since i been off. I havnt had a period in like two months. i actually starting to have every freakin pregnancy symptom after i stop using the pill. I kept testing. All three tests negative. Hopefully i can get pregnant soon. Its probably so frustrating trying to get pregnant and nothing!
27/09/2014 at 13:55
27/09/2014 at 13:58
27/09/2014 at 16:18
Well its been three weeks and no period yet. I heared you might ovulate first then get a period. I dont have any pregnancy symptoms at this time. I just have a bad cough and cold. The change of weather is making me sick! I am thinking about buying some ovulation tests tho to see if i am ovulating. I am thinking if i dont get my period in two more weeks, then ill take a pregnancy test. I did feel like i was fertile this past week. I had white creamy discharge only when i had intercourse. No smell, do itching, just the normal discharge. So maybe i did ovulate first before a period. let me know what your test says. Baby dust to you!!!
28/09/2014 at 01:28
28/09/2014 at 01:59
Awwww that sucks!!!! I have one more digital pregnancy test. So ill wait two more weeks. And test again. so hopefully i do get my bfp. Ill let you know the update!
28/09/2014 at 03:48
01/10/2014 at 13:30
01/10/2014 at 18:09
Hi can i join
Wish you all the luck♥
Were ttc too and a little frustrated my daughter is already 10, we had our luck without me knowing last year nov im 8 weeks pregnant just thought its just my irregular period because on my first month delayed it was a bfn so i did not bother to test again and surprisingly they were twins but when the time i found out the dr told me that it is an abortion due to my twins were dead inside me maybe that is the reason why my period smells like rotten egg and had my appointment with my dr and it shout that it is an mc so frustrating because since then were on ttc but still nothing is happening i had my pill started last feb just to regulate my period then i stoped around 2nd week of june then i just got my period this sept5 well lately i had this unusual feeling so i decided to have a home pregnancy test 3 test are all faint lines, but still not loosing hope and faith, if my 4th test this week is a bfn i would like to try clomid, just a little afraid of having triplets haha coz i already had twins and theres this possibility to have triplets coz they say i dont know if its true when we had a chance of twins, our chances on triplets are high due to clomid produce multiple eggs.
Sorry for a long story ♥
Baby dust to all ♥
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