Hi all,
just a question, af still hasnt come (was due on weds) and still havent done a test as i have ordered them online and waiting for them to come. About 2 nights ago i was going so faint i had to stop what i was doing and today i have been getting stomach cramps but not like af and really bad pain in my back not like back ache but like stomach cramp but in my back, does that make sense?? Also bee badn getting really heartburn today. What does this mean?? xxx

If you are nearly a week late they are very good signs of pg - can you go and buy a cheapy one from tescos or something if you are still waiting?

What cycle are you on / were you on pill? Just I had this last month and was 8 days late :x

Well this is the reason i have waited so long to test, here goes... I came off the pill very early december and dint have af for about 3 months then had 2 in a row that came on time but they lasted for about 2 weeks each. Then i didnt have another for about 2 months then i had one last month which again lasted for about 2 weeks. I went to docs and he said that if next one didnt come then to go back and see him but it came last month so i didnt go back. Surley after 8 months of coming off the pill my cycles should be back to normal by now?? But thinking back to before i went on the pill i dont think i ever had a regular cycle and myaf's used used to last for 2-3 weeks each time!! in don't know what to think!! xxx

Oh hun that's a nightmare. Personally I would go to docs anyway and see. It can take a year for body to settle down after pill, but surely you must be able to see some sort of regularity by now. They could then do a pg test for you too.

I don't know if this helps your decision to go to docs or not, but before pill I was extremely iregular (anywhere up to 6mths inbetween) and mine lasted 10-14 days. Since I came off pill in April i have had a 40 and 48 day cycle and they now last 7 days.

So u mean you've been more regular since you came off the pill than u were before? Im just ready to scream and explode now as my doctor said when i went to see him before that really i should be back in a regular cycle by now but i didnt tell him we were trying to conceive because we wernt at the time that was about 2 months ago and still no regularity!! xx

Yes I am more regular than before (obviously not as regular as on pill!). My cycles are varying but only by a week or so, and the af is shorter.

Go to the doctors again - especially if they thought it should have settled more by now. Tell them you are ttc and would like to get to the bottom of it for that reason.

Thanks for your advice will try and get to the docs but work such annoying shifts its pretty difficult to get to the docs then i just havent got the energy to do it on day off!! thanks again xxx

I used to do a job like that too so I can sympathise! Good luck and no probs