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22/11/2017 at 17:40
Thank you for clicking in this thread, I am really hoping you can help as I feel so alone and confused.
So Husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for about 18 months, We fell pregnant last year but turned out to be early miscarriage. I went to the doctors and he advise I have a scan (trans-vaginal) which I had done and nothing came out as worrying. I have a 11 year old daughter from a previous relationship. I am 35 years old in January 2018 and beginning to lose hope. My husband, although he loves my daughter, desperately want another child and I am getting more and more worried as time goes by.
In this cycle, things got a little worrying and confusing. I normal have 30 - 34 day cycles. So the last day of my period was on the 1st November, we had intercourse on the 12th November which according to my app is 1 day before fertility window. 2 days later on the 14th November I had some light brown spotting which went away the next day. We then had intercourse again on the 18th November and the app said I had 1 more day of fertility window on that day. On the 20th November I have light brown spotting again. For the past 1 week and half I have been getting cramping but not painful, just uncomfortable. I've had slightly fuller boobs and slight back pain. I have also had horrible nausea through the day in the past week. I went to the doctors today as I was fed up with the nausea and she done a urine test, pregnancy test which was surprise surprise negative and she also done some swabs for infection and chlamydia.
I can't understand why I am not getting pregnant or why my body is feeling the way it is. My period is due on the 1st December so could this be AF arriving? Any advise would be so so helpful. :)
24/11/2017 at 01:17
Hya hun im in same boat. Just turned e9 been trying almost 2 years and all my tats have come bk ok. Turns out fellas sperm count is low and thats probably why. Fertility clinic have taken another sample from him but have said because of my age if it hasn't happened in 6 months then they recommend IVF. Which we wud have to fund as I have an 11 year old son from previous relationship. 😔😔😔😔😔 I sometimes resent my age because even though all my tests are normal including egg quality , as i am 40 next year I dot have the time to keep trying x
24/11/2017 at 01:18
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