CD41 NO AF & NO BFP

I just know that I cant be pg a hpt would've showed up a definate line by now, despite all my weird symptoms & the fact the she hasnt shown everyone may say it's not over till she arrives. But realistically I'd have one or the other by now surely!!!.

I've got a phone appt with the doctor today to see what she thinks. I am pretty sure of when I ov the only other thing I can think is that my body tried to ov & didnt despite having ov pain!!!

I know all our bodies are weird and play up but im starting to get really fed up now to tell the truth I just want something to happen!!!! xx

UPDATE

The doc has just rang me, she was really nice, I told her about the symptoms I've been having & the strange tests I was getting last week, they were vry faint & then deveoping more colour just as the 10 mins was up (I took this as being evap). She said that she wants me to do a fmu and take it to them monday as there tests are much more sensitive than hpt's, she said it's possible that with my symptoms and lack of af I could be pg & it's just not showing on hpt's she said they'll get the result back in 2 days. She said that if I was pg there may be a problem with the pg & that even if the tests still comes back -ve & im still having symptoms & no af she will send me for a scan to check & see whats going on, as with my last pg I was still having strong pg symptoms at 12wks but the 12wk scan showed the sac had stopped growing at 6wks. .

Thank you ladies for all your support, im feeling a little better now i've spoken to her but a little worried that something sinister is going on. I really hope now that my body is just playing tricks with me ): cry xx

[Modified by: laujai on 19 June 2009 11:32:33 ]

What's the longest cycle you've had Lau? This is very weird and it's not necessarily the case that a BFP would be showing. I remember hearing some crazy lengths of time that some girls had to wait for to get their BFP to show. Let us know what the doc thinks.

It's typical, isn't it that just when you think you've got your body sussed, it does something to confuse you. Grrrrr!

How many DPO do you think you are Laujai?

I would be so frustrated too!! How long are your cycles normally?

Hi ladies,

My cycles varied before my mmc they were getting into some sort of order!! Then when I had the erpc vry early Jan I didnt get my nxt af till March!! So effectively I've only had 2 cycles 32 & 35 days, im on my 3rd cycle. Im 99.9% certain I ov somewere in the last wk of May.

I know that even now my cycles would maybe not be back to normal I dont know I cant remember them saying that they may be irreugular!! But surely if I ov then I wouldve had a af by now, so now im thinking what if I didnt ov but then what was that pain!!! Im so confused!!! xx

I was just writing on a different post that as far as I know your LP is always the same so if you know you ov'd then AF should be here by now. Even if you ov'd on 31st May that's still nearly 3 weeks ago. I've never heard of an LP that long! I feel your pain! I would be confused as hell! 'Luckily' my AF always puts me out of my misery at about the time I'm expecting her to!

So either my body or my bean is playing tricks!!! Im not impressed!!! I will see what the doc says when she calls, I was going to make an appt to see her but i just remembered last night that I have people coming to fix the boiler!!! xxx

I can't imagine how frustrated you must be now, laujai. I agree that it's probably safest to assume that a BFP would have shown up by now - although there are cases of people still having BFNs at this stage and turning out to be pregnant, I know how frustrating it is to keep getting your hopes up and if it were me, I would rather be prepared for the worst and possibly be pleasantly surprised than keep hoping and then have the hopes dashed.

I hope the doctor is able to give you some answers today - and I still really hope it's a shy BFP xx

That's exactly what im thinking Ldom, it is safest to presume that im not pg & my body is just being mean giving me all these symptoms and a delayed af!!

I keep getting what I think could be af pain but not as bad & then it goes, I keep feeling really wet downstairs & running to the loo to knicker check & nothing but watery cm!! x

hey laujai,

i hope that it's just you ov-ed later than you think. i have read that certain types of functional cysts can delay AF. i hope you find out what's afoot soon xxx

Good luck laujai and let us know how it goes with Dr.

It sounds like you are having lots of positive signals but I agree with LDOM, you're probably best to think the worst and then it will be a pleasant surprise.

Hope it all works out and this is a mischievous little bean! xxx

Hi Laujai, oh blimey you are really going through it, arnt you huni!! (((big hugs)))
I think its possible that you never ov when you thought. Do you have any opks? It might be worth poas just to see if anything comes up!
I had a strange cycle a few months back AF arrived after 69 days!!! I was lucky because i was taking temps so i was able to see that i hadnt ov so i sort of knew what was going on!
Of course like the others said i also really hope that its a shy bfp. Let us know what the doc says, good luck xxxxx

just a quick reply i did not get a bfp or pos blood test at all with my son. i did 4 home tests and 2 at the doc both were negative so like you was sent for a scan as no af and there he was!!!! i was 10 weeks pg so it does happen x x

I'm glad the doc was helpful, laujai - at least you'll have some answers soon, and I hope they're positive ones xx

Thank you Bev for that reassurance, I just spoke to my oh & he's terrified now that something is wrong with me, I didnt get a +ve test until my 2nd missed af last time but we lost that baby so he's very anxious bless him, I had a really hard time with that mmc & had to be admitted to hosp for 3-4 days. Thank you again for that hun it's made me feel alot better knowing it does happen & it can be a good outcome xxx

laujai I hope everything picks up and goes well. It sounds like you have an understanding doctor and it's good that she will start tests straight away and an early scan could put your mind at ease.

Best of luck and let us know how all goes xxx

i was amazed as had no posative tests at all or symptoms so pregnancy was ruled out until i has the scan and she said oh there it is, i said what and she said a baby!!!! i nearly fell off the bed. i produced no hcg with him apparently. they say it is quite common so i missed 2 periods and still no posative the scan put me at 10 weeks. he is now 13 and full of it. it can happen hun just wanted to share with you that its not over yet x x

keep posative . our bodies are strange objects. and they do as they wish. there are not many reasons for no af unless you are pg so my doc says x x

Thank you so much hun, imagine that I can just picture it having a routine scan & seeing a baby LOL I'd love that it would be worth all the wait & better than getting a +ve hpt!!! Yes i will stay +ve whatever the outcome, just spoke to my friend and were gona meet up later to take my mind off it, thank you again all of you I think i'd be bald by now if I didnt have you lovelies to talk too xx

ah well all the best hun and keep in touch let me know how it all goes. best w9shes x x

I will, thanks again hun xx