I only have one boy but if we had more than one it definately wouldnt be worht me working, I earn very little once I have paid out childcare but I do get a pension, healthcare and a company car so it was worth me coming back, if I have any more, harry will be in school by then so I wont have to pay out fo rmore than one.
My OH would have hated it if I didnt come back to work - not sure why!
Childcare is very expensive but when I work out the hourly rate its not that much to include food and drink, i do agree there should be some help, the government want people to work and some people actually cant affrod to!