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Couple forced to pay maintenance after surrogate keeps their baby

Surrogate mum handed custody of daughter, while her biological parents are forced to pay child maintenance

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Posted: 12 April 2011
by Joanna Harvey
Couple left heartbroken as surrogate mother claims maintenance after keeping baby for herself
Couple left heartbroken as surrogate mother claims maintenance after keeping baby for herself

A couple have been forced to shell out child maintenance for a baby they will never meet, after their surrogate mum changed her mind during pregnancy. The couple, referred to as Mr and Mrs W, were shattered when a judge awarded their surrogate custody of the child, only to be told by the Child Support Agency (CSA) that they were also legally required to pay child maintenance.

The couple originally agreed to pay £10,000 to a surrogate kown as Miss N, who they found on a surrogacy website. But Mr and Mrs W were devastated when Miss N had a change of heart halfway through the pregnancy and decided to keep their baby.

Miss N was granted custody of the baby girl, who is the biological daughter of Miss N and Mr W, by a judge. She was also allowed to keep the £4,500 already paid to her by the couple, and Mr W was ordered to pay £568 each month in child support.

The couple also gave up contact rights to the baby, as they say it would have been too emotional and unfair on her.

“She has taken away our baby and now she is taking our money," Mr W told the Daily Mail. "To me, that is completely wrong. The CSA has made the decision as if we were a couple who had broken up, but our situation is unique. We had agreed for her to carry a baby for my wife and myself. I have written to Downing Street and my MP to call for a change in the law,” he added.

What are your opinions on this extraordinary case?


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So what do you think?

Momof4Dav
That is absolutly disgraceful! How can the CSA force them to pay for a baby they have no custody of? Do parents who have their children taken into care have to pay for their upkeep? With all the fathers in the country getting away with paying very little or nothing for their children how can this be right or even legal? No doubt this surrogate is still claiming all sorts of benefits on top of the £500 a month off the baby's biological parents. About 2 years ago
Charmaine
Talk about add "insult to injury" must be so had for the biological parents not to have their baby, but to have to pay someone else to look after it!
About 2 years ago
delly n eva
I think thats awful. After trusting someone to give up their baby as agreed then suddenly to have that taken away but still made to pay I think thats so cruel! Fair enough the mum changed her mind but she went through an agreement. She should have just kept the baby and asked no more from the two parents to be! She should be grateful she has a wonderful baby! About 2 years ago
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