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Parents delay children’s development because of stress and laziness

A fifth of parents keep their children in nappies long past their third birthday, finds new study

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Posted: 4 October 2010
by Kimberley Smith

The stress of easing children out of nappies, dummies and bad habits, leads parents to put off developmental goals long past the average age, a new survey reveals.

The study of 1,196 parents with children aged between 3 and 10 years, has found that 20% kept their children in nappies until the age of 3 ½ while a further 17% still allowed their children to take a dummy to bed at age 4.

But parents have their reasons for not encouraging their toddler  onto the next developmental stage. Around half said the stress caused trying to wean their child out of baby habits was the main problem, although 9% did admit to simply being “lazy”.

That said, 31% were keen to encourage their child’s progess at the earliest opportunity while 27% only muted their encouragement in an attempt to keep their child’s “baby qualities” for as long as possible.

To find out the ideal age for potty training and how to do it, check out our essential guide. And if your little one just won’t give up her dummy, try some tips from other mums on our forums.


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So what do you think?

buster76
I was actually thinking about whether I should have stopped the night-time pants for my boys the other day, but the thought of having to get up in the middle of the night to change the whole bed set really doesn't appeal especially as I'm 36 weeks pregnant! One is 3 just and one is 4 nearly 5 and we have another 18 month old so we already have a considerable amount of washing to do and no tumble dryer. About 2 years ago
mummabear
I was a lil lazy with Tom,he was in pull ups at night til 3,and I felt very guilty,he was dry in the day at 2 and 3 months,I attempted night time,but he got upset at wet beds,so being lazy I put a nappy back on,then time just went on,until one day I thought I should re-assure him rather than go for easy option,it wasn't as bad as i thought,I had a lot of success with Joseff who is out of nappies day and night at 2 and 6mths,and has been for 3 months,I doubt I'll hold the third one back now.
I lacked confidence to bite the bullet,and with it being winter had exact same prob as buster,no drier makes twice the work. I will never make the same mistakes with my third baby,so maybe it's a confidence thing?
My two have never had dummies so I'm lucky I dont have to deal with that issue!
About 2 years ago
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