Sibling jealousy – does attending the birth of a new baby help?

More and more parents in the US have asked for siblings to be present during birth - which has led to hospitals relaxing their policies


A increasing number of hospitals in the US say they’re facing requests to have children present at the birth of siblings, with some families feeling it makes older siblings less jealous.


American hospitals, which are competing for pregnant women who want a less medical birth experience, are having to become more flexible with delivery room policies, claims The Boston Globe

Researchers asked parents, in several studies, about the impact on siblings present at the birth. Their findings were mixed. 

Some believed that young children could be scared by the blood, but others thought the experience could create a bond with the baby that made siblings, especially only-children, less jealous. 

Dr Jeffery Riley, chief of obstetrics and gynecology at Emerson Hospital in Massachusetts, USA, said that he has seen children “thrilled” at being present at the birth of a sibling. 

However, Dr Jeffery, also went on to say, “Children were very confused about what was going on. They see their mother in distress and it’s concerning to them if they don’t understand it’s part of the birthing process.”

Would you want your children present while you give birth? Have you had your kids present with you during labour? We’d love to know your thoughts…

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