The Twitterview: Carmit Bachar

Former Pussycat Doll and mum-of-one on dance, being born cleft and why daughter Keala is a star

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@PPPMAGAZINE: Does the demand of being a mum mirror those of being in a girl band?

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@IamCarmit: Both are demanding but completely different. In the Pussycat Dolls I had to take care of myself. Now it’s all about my daughter Keala. She’s my priority!

@PPPMAGAZINE: What’s your favourite thing about being a mum?

@IamCarmit: The joy I see in Keala’s eyes when she smiles and laughs. Watching her dance and say ‘I love you’ to me. Mornings in bed being silly and playing.

@PPPMAGAZINE: What advice would you give to children with a cleft lip?

@IamCarmit: Find a hobby, something artistic that inspires you, that you feel self-expressed in! Don’t let others judge you, show them who you are inside.

@PPPMAGAZINE: What was the hardest thing about growing up with a cleft lip? How did you cope?

@IamCarmit: Being teased and feeling rejected. Kids can be mean with words, so dancing, gymnastics, playing piano and singing made me feel special.

@PPPMAGAZINE: Were you worried that your child would have the same issue?

@IamCarmit: I was very concerned that my daughter would be born cleft, too. It can be genetic or completely random. One in 700 babies are affected.

@PPPMAGAZINE: Do you plan to have more children?

@IamCarmit: Not right now, but ask me in a year or two. Having a child gives you perspective and is the purpose of life. It’s the best thing in the world.

@PPPMAGAZINE: What are your three mummy must-haves?

@IamCarmit: A hands-free carrier like Bjorn, a Baltic amber teething necklace and a nap nanny are some mommy must-haves. I have a list of plenty more, too!

@PPPMAGAZINE: What kind of exercise did you do before and after pregnancy?

@IamCarmit: During pregnancy I took some yoga and I kept fit by taking nice long walks. After, I took core power yoga, cardio barre, hiked and danced.

@PPPMAGAZINE: Are you the kind of mum you thought you’d be?

@IamCarmit: When I see Keala light up, I know it’s a reflection of Mommy and Daddy’s love. She is our star and makes me better than I thought I would be.

@PPPMAGAZINE: Do you think there’s enough advice and help for children born with a cleft palate?

@IamCarmit: The more advanced we get, the more knowledge and information we have on this issue. That’s why I’m so adamant about raising awareness.

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Carmit is an ambassador for The Cleft Lip and Palate Association (CLAPA), which supports those with and affected by cleft lip and/or palate in the UK. Contact CLAPA by visiting www.clapa.com, email info@clapa.com or call 020 7833 4883. Find us on facebook.com/clapacommunity or on Twitter @clapacommunity.

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