Mum’s honest post about taking her kids shopping gets 28k Facebook likes – here’s why

'This is motherhood: These tears started as the cashier handed me my receipt and continued for the entire drive home'

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Not every story you read about parenthood will break the internet. For anyone who doesn’t have kids, this Facebook post, from mum Aly Brothers, about doing the weekly food shop, would almost certainly go pretty much unnoticed.

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But the mums and dads out there who just know what it’s like going to the local supermarket with your little ones in tow will totally get that Aly’s insights utterly and completely hit the nail on the head.

Aly is a single mum of two boys, and following a particularly nightmarish trip to to do a shop, she shared a pic of herself in tears, and a heartfelt post all about what a total disaster the trip was from start to finish.

Read Aly’s post in full

“This is motherhood. 

“No fancy filters, no good lighting, no new lipstick. It’s messy hair that’s wet from the rain, yesterday’s makeup that I was too tired to wash off, and tears. Motherhood is HARD. Single-motherhood is HARD.

“These tears started as the cashier of Giant Eagle handed me my receipt and continued for the entire drive home. Tears that were passed on to my oldest in the backseat because he doesn’t like to see his mommy cry. We know how much boys love their mothers. 

“You see, my two blonde haired, blue eyed, angel faced toddlers were not so angelic today. It was 8:00 in the morning and we were out of milk. We took a trip to the store because if you know my kids; you know they survive on chocolate milk. But they weren’t having it.

“My youngest cried almost the entire time we were in the store. He didn’t want to sit in the cart, he didn’t want to be buckled, he wanted to hold all the groceries on his lap. He got mad. He threw his shoe, he threw my wallet, he threw the three groceries that did fit on his lap.

“And he cried. And people stared. That was fine, I could handle that. My three year old wanted to be superman and stand on the cart. That was fine. I told him to hold on and stand straight. He did not. He fell off, he leaned backwards and knocked things off their displays.

“He leaned back and bumped a stranger. Then I made him get down and he walked too far ahead of me and opened all the freezer section doors telling me all the things he wanted to get. I tried to handle that. I stopped multiple times and composed myself and my children.

“The lady that I stopped and moved to the side of the aisle for glared at me because I moved the wrong way, she needed behind me not in front of me. No words, just a glare. I tried to handle that. And then we saw balloons. Oh how my kids love balloons. They wanted the huge ones that cost $8.00. I compromised. We would get one balloon and share.

“They agreed. They each said “share” and smiled as I picked the biggest Mickey Mouse balloon they had. But while we were checking out they did not want to share. They screamed, they cried, they fought. I handed the balloon to another cashier to be put back and they cried louder. My youngest pushed buttons on the card machine while my oldest picked up candy. The people in line behind me glared.

“The cashier glared. Everyone’s eyes were on me as if to say “can’t you control your own children”. One older gentleman whispered, “she’s pretty young for two kids” and I lost it. She handed me my receipt and I cried. They don’t know me. They don’t know me as a mother. They don’t know my children.

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“They don’t know I was married before I started a family. They don’t know I left that marriage because of abuse knowing I would have it just as hard as a single mother. It’s hard people. The glares and whispers and judgments are hard.

“Sometimes I can control my children and sometimes I can’t. Sometimes they listen and sometimes they don’t. Sometimes I can handle it and sometimes I break down. I know these days will pass, the tears will stop, the fighting will cease, and my babies will be grown.

“And that will be hard too. So if you see a parent struggling, if you see a kid throwing a tantrum, if you see a mom on the verge of tears… please say something nice.

“Please don’t glare with judgement. And to all moms out there having a day like mine…I see you, I know you, I love you. You are strong and you are doing just fine.”

Ahhh, man – whether you’re a single mum or have a partner – we soooo get Aly’s pain, right?

The reaction

This brutally honest post really struck a chord with parents all over social media, getting 28 thousands reactions and more than 3,000 comments.

One mum, who’d clearly had a very similar day, wrote:

“I’m in tears. I have had a day like this today. My car broke down a week ago then for the past 4 days I have stayed with a friend because my electricity is out from a bad storm. On top of that my son has def showed his terrible two side. Anyways…you got this and thank you for the reminder I am not alone!”

Another said: 

“The REALEST post ever! I’ve felt like this MANY times, I find myself crying (on the toilet, in the shower, myself to sleep) and I feel like I’m all alone, thanks to this post I know I’m not! THANK YOU FOR SHARING ?????????”

Fair do’s Aly. Keep on trucking?

Though we do say thank the lord for online shopping ?

Photos: Aly Brothers on Facebook

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